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Incredulous insight from XPervert

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 Ashland13 (original poster member #38378) posted at 1:40 AM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

It's me!

This latest one I couldn't resist posting. I almost dropped my phone to read and will be interested to see if there are any reactions on Si.

XPervert is making preparations to bring DD to his new lair, or "rock", I call it, where he slinks back to.

He sent me a message that says "It is not immoral to bring DD here now."

Well, we aren't even divorced yet-the ink's not even dry and he's holding up the process-so how on this green earth can he possibly, in his right mind, say such a thing?

He comes from a moral and religious, polish-irish-roman catholic heritage...I know he knows the meanings of these words...is he delusional or mentally ill?

Then...he says, repeatedly, "Oh, I still care for you, don't say I don't."

WTF?????

I know, get the box of crickets out, you will all say. I'm workin' on it. I'm just flabbergasted, to use my mother's word.

Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

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Pass ( member #38122) posted at 2:04 AM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

It must be great to be getting lessons on immorality from a lying, cheating, sack of shit. Just like shortly after I moved out, when The Princess told me that I've been acting out and making poor decisions (Translation: I was getting uppity!). We should really be more appreciative of what they have to teach us!

Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:11 AM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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sleepless34 ( member #40274) posted at 2:22 AM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

Yea, it is all "fine" now right?? not immoral at all.

He wants a reaction. Don't be tempted. Although I am sure there are many great one liners you could think of.....

Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

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Housefulloflove ( member #38458) posted at 9:22 AM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

His undeveloped brain seems to be struggling to understand the concept of morality. Things that seem basic to us must be so horribly confusing for him. Moral= whatever he wants to do at that point in time, no?

I find the stupidity and hypocrisy from my ex easier to deal with when I repeat to myself that I am dealing with a child who looks like a man. The world may see a man when they look at him but if he looked like his mental age he wouldn't even have reached puberty. I'm basically parenting with a child who isn't much older than our children and as frustrating as that still is, keeping that in mind helps tremendously in keeping my expectations appropriately low.

Tragically my kids are learning to have very low/ no expectations as well.

Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

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