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User Topic: I am only as sick as my secrets.
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Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wanted to post that means a considerable amount to me as I look inside myself and change that which needs to be changed...then feel the positive affects afterwards...sometimes a month or two later.

I pray I keep this thought in mind as I struggle daily with motivation to keep growing....

ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.

Posts: 5825 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
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Default  Posted: 1:05 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


This is so true. Some of my secrets were actually HIS secrets that I was keeping in order for him to keep his image as a good person. The last 2-3 years (I've been divorced from NPDXH for 10 years) have seen me NOT keeping his lies to anyone. And those others have NOW come to see the truth and there are consequences to his actions. Thankfully, I have apologized for keeping HIS secrets, I did it out of love and not wanting to cause those who love him any more pain.

Today on my newsfeed I posted the following:

The only people who are mad at you for speaking the truth are those people who are living a lie.

Keep Speaking the Truth!

It is so very true.



I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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