I''m so sorry that you had the reason to come find us, especially at a time when your life should be filled with joy and anticipation, but I am SO GLAD that you DID find us for support.
I know that it doesn''t feel like it right now, but you are doing very good and being very strong. You took some great initial steps upon finding out about this steaming pile that was thrown into your life. You have gone out IRL and asked for support from your mother and friend. You have scheduled an STD test to make sure to protect yourself AND your baby, and you have demanded that you see a clean panel from your WH. You have gotten him out of the house so that you have a chance to detach a bit to think and to figure out what you need. You have a plan going forward and you''ve found us for support and advice. All of this while you''re about to give birth.
Lady, you are AMAZING! You truly are! And anyone who can''t see that isn''t worth the bottom of your foot.
Please read The Healing Library which is located in the upper left yellow box. Please read any post in this forum that has a bulls-eye next to it. These are all good articles and advice, written by people who have been there and done that. I would also suggest seeing a lawyer to find out what you and your child''s rights are in case of separation and divorce. Knowledge is power, and you want as much knowledge as possible. You don''t need to go any further than that right now.
And remember. The only, ONLY priority in your life right now is to yourself and that beautiful baby that''s waiting to be born. You own nothing to any other person, let alone a liar and cheater. (((hugs)))
edited to say, I just bumped a bunch of posts for you to read so you don't have to search for them.
[This message edited by Skan at 11:46 AM, October 18th, 2013 (Friday)]