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User Topic: What's everyone doing this weekend?
tesla
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I started my weekend off by taking off the day to mind a sick Teslet. Tonight, we are laying low.

Tomorrow I have a CC meet and hopefully if Teslet is feeling better he gets to go to his first school birthday party!

Sunday we'll carve pumpkins. And maybe start looking for card design ideas for the card exchange


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4823 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Exit Wounds
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Working my second job tomorrow. Then I am spending time with my kids feeding ducks in the pond, walking our two dogs. Going out to dinner w/ kids.
Life is good and simple.

Posts: 2486 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dog...
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going to Target (always an event) and hopefully taking the littles to a corn maze. it's supposed to be beautiful!
Sunday I want to make something in the crock pot.


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2624 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Movie night with friends tonight. Tomorrow I need to force myself to take my car in for its 90k mile tune up then drag myself to the eye doc for new contacts. Sunday will be a family day; my grandmother is turning 75.


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3578 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful, crisp sunny weekend ahead here in Oregon. Tonight going to dinner and a play with a friend. Tomorrow, Zumba in the morning, West Coast Swing dance class in the afternoon. Sunday...the fun ends and the yard work begins. Ugh.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 1047 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
Shockleader
♂ 36827
Member # 36827
Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Work half of Saturday, then off to see SO for a micro brew visit. Sunday will be spent with Tibetan Monks, and being part of a tea ceremony. Later that day dinner with her whole family... can't wait!


D-Day spring 2012
Me BS 47
Xcheater 44
One DD 19
Married 23 years
Divorced 12/23/13 Fu*king A!

The cruel, the unkind, those without honor, feast on the tender heart...


Posts: 653 | Registered: Sep 2012
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Meeting up with friends or my bro and SIL for Friday night cocktails. Whoever calls me first wins.

Tomorrow will be a Y workout, chores, and errands in the morning then attending a going away party for a friend moving out of state tomorrow night while we watch Bucky pound the FIB's.

Sunday - WW weigh-in meeting, then some retail therapy followed by MORE FOOTBALL!

Have a good one, y'all!

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21117 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tomorrow, going to an auction with a friend (yay). There will also be food involved in that trip.

Sunday, not sure yet. Loving this gorgeous fall weather!

Tonight, I'll be having supper with my family - I have a bunch of Aunts, Uncles, and cousins that came to visit from all over the country. It will be a lot of laughs.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7865 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight cooking like a fiend for tomorrow. Tomorrow, packing up all that food and heading to the Berkshires with GDM and his dog. Hiking and an auction are on tap. Sunday laundry and mellowing out. It is all good.


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 29738 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
Newlease
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight working on getting the spare bedroom cleared out for an overnight visit from the grandkids on Saturday night!

Sunday returning the grandkids to their (probably) hung over parents and then just hanging out and enjoying the beautiful fall weather.

Wish I could afford to live where this is the climate year round. Is there such a place?

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

Posts: 7807 | Registered: Aug 2005
Celticlass
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My daughter is moving closer to me this weekend, so I'm driving down tomorrow morning to pick up my beautiful 9 month old grand daughter for her very first overnight at ya-ya's house! That way, her mum and dad can move without "distractions".

So, it will be major baby time




Posts: 72 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Lone Star State
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight making fried chicken and hotsauce, having a few beers and watching college football.

Tomorrow, hell I have no idea

Sunday, chores, sunday dinner and R&R.


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"


Posts: 2890 | Registered: Aug 2011
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saturday - I'm leading a workshop in nature connection. Then SO will grill salmon and we will watch homeland episodes. Sunday - resting, horse grooming and lunging for a neighbor.


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5948 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
thyme2go
♂ 12908
Member # 12908
Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight - chill.

Tomorrow - not one, but two different dates. And I thought I was not a multi-dater. A hike for the first date - an Avett Brothers concert for the second one.

Heaven help me...

-t2g


BH - no longer 49
3 DD's - (29, 25 and 18)
Divorced on 8/6/09

Posts: 9200 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: Eastern Washington
cmego
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight, writing a paper that is going to be the death of me.

Tomorrow, soccer in the morning, then date 3 with "new guy".

Sunday, have been asked to be a "third wheel" with my bestie and her H for a winery visit. Not sure if I'm going, depends on work load from school.


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4283 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
burnedcanuckEMS
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hoping on a plane and flying to another city to meet up with an old girl friend that I haven't seen in over 12 years! We have tickets to go see the Pink concert! I am so excited, this will be my fourth major trip since the breakup! I am finally exploring my dreams to travel which I could never do while married. Whoop whoop!!!


Me: BW 38, Him: WH 37
M: 07/07/07
DDay: 06/09/12
Divorce Granted on December 5, 2012 - fasted divorce ever (thanks to my good lawyer) and I am not looking back with ANY regrets!!

PS...sorry for any spelling errors or missing letters etc..... ty


Posts: 284 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Alberta
phmh
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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

burnedcanuk -- I am seeing Pink when she comes to my city in November. Have a great time!

Friday -- I went out every single night after work this week, so I am staying in tonight to relax, clean a bit, and hang out with my parrots who have missed me terribly because I've been so busy.

Saturday -- longish run in the morning, some errands in the afternoon, and heading to a gala fundraiser in the evening. Looking forward to putting on a fancy cocktail dress and wearing this stunning bracelet that is far too sparkly for everyday wear!

Sunday -- heading to a 5K with friends that takes place entirely in a corn maze. Supposedly well marked. Should be interesting! Stopping at an orchard/cidery on the way home, and then probably relaxing the rest of the day.

It will fly by way too quickly.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3537 | Registered: Dec 2011
ruinedandbroken
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Tonight, snuggling with my littles. Tomorrow they go with Disney Dad in the morning. :( I have errands to run then going to drink margaritas with a friend. Sunday meeting another friend for brunch.


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

Posts: 1575 | Registered: Aug 2010
h0peless
♂ 36697
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tomorrow I'm going to a big car show with my Dad and then heading home to watch my step brother and his team upset the Buckeyes on their home turf. No plans for Sunday but I imagine I'll find some sort of trouble to get into.

Posts: 1850 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
peacelovetea
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No kids this weekend, so I need to do as much homework as I possibly can to keep on top of all the balls I have in the air.

Hopefully I will get togehter with some girlfriends, too, for some fun.


BW, SAHM
D-Day: 6/5/09, drunken ONS on business trip, confessed immediately, transparent, remorseful but emotionally clueless
M 11 years, 3 kids
4/12 Tried to R for 3 years, have decided to D
12/31/12 D final

Posts: 542 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: PacNW
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