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Aubrie posted 10/18/2013 15:02 PM

A lot has been going on. Don't have the strength nor stomach to pour it all out.

Tonight is a meeting to hash things out. It will be the deciding factor on whether my FOO will be a part of our lives anymore.

I'm sick. I'm scared. I'm exhausted. I feel I'm on the verge of freedom but that the cost will be great, and my children could suffer from the impact.

Any prayers or mojo would be appreciated.

EmotionalFool posted 10/18/2013 15:09 PM

((Aubrie)) Wishing you strength and peace

Aubrie posted 10/18/2013 15:18 PM

Thanks EF. I'm so scared. I'm physically sick. My stomach is shredded. Can't eat. Can't drink. It feels like a weird version of Dday although it not infidelity related at all.

LosferWords posted 10/18/2013 15:22 PM

Hang in there, Aubrie. Go with your heart. That's really all you can do.

Sending mojo and strength your way.

SurprisinglyOkay posted 10/18/2013 15:42 PM

Got some mojo coming your way

Faithful w/Love posted 10/18/2013 15:42 PM

Stay strong and fllow your heart. Remember we are all here cheering you on.

heartache101 posted 10/18/2013 15:49 PM

Aubrie
We can not change our past.
We can have a happy future by learning from our past.
Our true selves shines thru on how we handle our mistakes in life.

Good Luck!

plainsong posted 10/18/2013 15:51 PM

Sending you prayers and support. I hear your concern about your kids being affected. Remember that they will also benefit from seeing their parents set boundaries to protect themselves (and the family as a whole) from abusive or unhealthy relationships.

Also remember that it is ok for you to make the decision that you think and feel is best for you now. If the situation or people change later, you can renegotiate.

The most important thing now is to respect yourself and your own family unit. If you can speak respectfully to your FOO members while setting boundaries in this difficult situation, so much the better, but you can only do the best you can. I trust that your heart will lead you to a good choice.

Jrazz posted 10/18/2013 15:59 PM

Prayers and mojo for you. Will be sending good thoughts.

We're here for you.

(((Aubrie)))

ThoughtIKnewYa posted 10/18/2013 16:09 PM

(((Aubrie)))

knightsbff posted 10/18/2013 16:21 PM

Prayers for strength, peace and guidance.

(((Aubrie)))

Aubrie posted 10/18/2013 17:44 PM

Thanks everyone.

Plainsong, you're right. On every account. It is healthy, it is the right thing to do.

Its just facing the monster straight in the eyes that is so terrifying. Its facing the abuse head on. Its putting your foot down and saying "No more."

Terrifying.

wifehad5 posted 10/18/2013 18:03 PM

Good luck tonight. We're all behind you

gonnabe2016 posted 10/18/2013 18:07 PM

Strength vibes >>>>>>>

Joanh posted 10/18/2013 18:32 PM

Will be thinking of you and hope all goes well.
((Aubrie))

AFrayedKnot posted 10/18/2013 19:14 PM

Prayers

Aubrie posted 10/18/2013 21:13 PM

Well that was worthless. You cannot discuss anything with a NPD P/A nut job. It all just gets turned back around on us.

There were no fights. No raised voices. But we were treated very condescendingly. Whatever. I'm done.

I can be civil. But they know where I stand and how I feel. You wanna think I'm stupid? Fine. Whatever. My life goes on.

Aubrie posted 10/18/2013 21:14 PM

Thank you everyone for your words, care, and support. Means the world to me.

Jrazz posted 10/18/2013 21:17 PM

Well that was worthless. You cannot discuss anything with a NPD P/A nut job. It all just gets turned back around on us.

1,000,000% true. This is why we do not engage with NPD/PA IL's anymore. We have the full support of our counselors, and basically anyone else who knows them.

It's going to be ok. You have YOUR family, and that's a perfectly worthy place to put your energy.

Aubrie posted 10/18/2013 21:35 PM

Just pisses me off. Ya know?

Be a dick. Doesn't care. Because HE is right. Dontcha know. Noooooobody else knows anything. He is God's gift to humanity.

Good luck with that Dude.

I have my husband and children. That's all that matters. I almost lost them once. Ain't gonna happen again.

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