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sunshine226 posted 10/18/2013 17:14 PM

Having an "I knew it, I told you so" moment

DD has a friend who is going to college, let's call her Hilary, well Hilary goes to school with a guy, we will call him Brandon, who just happens to be the ex of OW's daughter

Well well well, have I got some stuff to share with all of you today!!!!!

Well Hilary figured out that Brandon was OW's daughter ex when the ex called his cell. So began the conversation about WH and OW, Hilary told Brandon that she knew WH and his wife and kids, Brandon was under the impression from OW and her daughter that DD was a brat and that WH and I were done, well Hilary filled Brandon in on the truth of it all and told him that DD and I are the nicest people you would ever meet and do anything for anyone

So this is what I have been able to find out from Hilary, she was told by Brandon that WH pays all of OW's bills, give her son money as an allowance every week and apparently when they met, wh told ow he was in a relationship but Ow pursued him relentlessly

So now Brandon wants to meet DD, and also DD called WH and confronted him about all this information and of course he denied it, what else is new

But I feel so vindicated, I was right about this sorry excuse of a woman the whole time, I suspected but WH would always deny it, but I got proof now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Absolutely made my day, my week!!!!!!!!

[This message edited by sunshine226 at 5:15 PM, October 18th (Friday)]

purplejacket4 posted 10/18/2013 17:37 PM

Gotta love validation!

heartache101 posted 10/18/2013 17:39 PM

Sooo sunshine is he still seeing OW and/or paying her bills etc?

Nice to know we are right every now and then.

sunshine226 posted 10/18/2013 18:24 PM

I sure hope not, I WILL FIND OUT IF HE IS

The truth always has a way of coming out

Since DDay, I have found out a lot of stuff on my own without WH telling me one single thing, including the type of plague he got mixed up with

I had her figured out right from the start and with every new bit of info I get, it just further confirms my instinct

[This message edited by sunshine226 at 6:25 PM, October 18th (Friday)]

Mousse242 posted 10/18/2013 18:57 PM

get access to all bank statements and find out if he is paying her bills. That is huge.

sunshine226 posted 10/18/2013 19:38 PM

I have access to the bank account and credit card statements so they are being watched very carefully

Too bad his cell is a work phone, can't get the call log information, but he is getting a new number

OW calls the house and his cell, but keeping track of all of this, writing it all down and saving any messages she leaves

I refuse to change a phone number we have had for years, let her keep calling, will only come back to bite her in her big fat ass in the end

sunshine226 posted 10/19/2013 19:58 PM

And the confirmations just keep pouring in

Seems that OW was overheard saying that she posted the pictures back in September (my post in general entitled "need another perspective") mostly to piss me off and will not remove them.

Like WTF????????

Ok, I know I suspected this all along and thought she had a motive for posting all those pictures but come on

But as I thought of the pictures back then and I definitely do now, they dont piss me off, they just show me without a shadow of a doubt just how truly pathetic she is

painfulpast posted 10/19/2013 20:11 PM

I'm a little confused - why would OW's daughter's ex have any idea that OW pursued him relentlessly or any of the other things here? Are you saying OW and her DD spent their time discussing the man that's cheating on his wife and his family to the boyfriend?

Nice family. And since Brandon said he "pays" as in present tense, I would definitely be asking for pay stubs to track every penny.

gonnabe2016 posted 10/19/2013 20:20 PM

Who cares about the pictures?????

The important question is this:
Is your WH still providing money to this OW?

headdesk posted 10/19/2013 20:38 PM

Hang in there. Document everything. Glad you're getting places with proof!

sunshine226 posted 10/20/2013 21:19 PM

The gravy train has left the station!!!! No more free ride for OW

But still finding out stuff and learning new stuff, well not really new, I guess its more of confirmation to what I already suspected all along

Seems that OW wanted WH to kick me and DD out of our new house so they could live here, when that didnt work, she wanted WH to build her a house for his new family cause he built one for the old one, that is what she called us, his old family

She's broke, hasn't worked in 5 years, bitched whenever DD called the house for her dad, despite OW says she could call anytime

And this is the most digusting of all of it, she used her son to make him stay, whenever he tried to leave, she would run to her son and tell him that WH was leaving and not coming back,and whenever he had left in the past, she would make up some excuse or have her son call him and he would fall for it and go back, who does that??????????

She bragged to her daughter how she saw WH and just had to have him, it was love at first sight and she WAS told by WH that he had a wife, she didnt care and yes I know WH is just as responsible because he gave in but I am glad to get confirmation that I wasnt misjudging her, that I WAS RIGHT

Cant wait for OW to move on with her life and leave us the hell alone,

[This message edited by sunshine226 at 9:22 PM, October 20th (Sunday)]