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Reconciliation :
olllld member dropping in :)

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 drowninginsorrow (original poster member #4545) posted at 2:02 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Hi everyone :) I don't recognize many names, although SI was a huge part of my life for a while. That's good right?! It means a LOT of people have moved on, and THAT is awesome. Because that is the concept that's almost impossible to envision after dday. That you WILL move on, move forward, move onward, and be ok. Dday was about 9 yrs ago for me. Our 18th anniversary is Monday. A lot has happened in our lives. Honestly if I did a life together review I probably would be hard pressed to think of the A as an event to include. It really does just fade away.

I'm so sorry for the pain that brings everyone here. It's a good place to have found. One of the unexpected benefits of SI is I found deep, lifelong, life changing friendships here. DS and MH (love you sugar boogers!) have my eternal gratitude for providing this safe, healing place. I hope you all find what you need here!

Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics

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travels ( member #20334) posted at 2:08 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

(Me waving wildly)

Hi DS!!! We miss you!

When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."

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LA44 ( member #38384) posted at 2:10 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Nice to read this post. Thanks for your positive update! Looks like you are a fellow Canadian too.

Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

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 drowninginsorrow (original poster member #4545) posted at 2:10 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Well ho lee shit! A familiar face!! Lol

*wave*. How ya been? :)

And hello fellow Canuck ! :)

[This message edited by drowninginsorrow at 8:11 PM, October 18th (Friday)]

Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics

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SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 2:21 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Thanks!!

FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"

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sri624 ( member #33956) posted at 4:29 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

thank you so much for dropping you. your posts gives me hope...that you can really move past this and be happy again.

BS (41):(Former Doormat)
WS (39):(Busted Cheater)
Married: 10 years, 3 kids under 5
DD1: 10/11 PA/EA with pilates instructor/former stripper.
DD2: 10/12 False r, cheating with other women, online dating,Substance abuse issues.
R:Last chance

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sri624 ( member #33956) posted at 4:30 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

thank you so much for dropping you. your posts gives me hope...that you can really move past this and be happy again.

BS (41):(Former Doormat)
WS (39):(Busted Cheater)
Married: 10 years, 3 kids under 5
DD1: 10/11 PA/EA with pilates instructor/former stripper.
DD2: 10/12 False r, cheating with other women, online dating,Substance abuse issues.
R:Last chance

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 4:36 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Hi!

Your Matt Groening quote and location zinger reserves you a spot in my BFF bucket, just so you know.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 4:45 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

HI, dis!!!

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FinallyHappy ( member #308) posted at 4:54 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

dis!!!!

Do you remember the time you made deep fried Snickers bars and posted a pictorial on F&G?

Or when we both decided to forgo vacuums and just rake our rugs?

Ahhhhhhhh. Good times. I miss you!

"Be civil to all; sociable to many; familiar with few; friend to one; enemy to none." ~Ben~

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 5:05 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Hi DIS!!!

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 5:06 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Dis! Always loved your tag line, though I do a quick head spin for ice weasels when it snows now

Great t o see you re doing well

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:26 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Awesome update!! It's great to hear positive, uplifting stories.

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click4it ( member #209) posted at 5:34 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

((((((((((((DIS)))))))))))))

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

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StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 6:40 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

I am pretty sure this qualifies you for hero status, so if the world is attacked by alien zombie demons then you're required by law to defend the planet.

Tempus Fuckit.

- Ricky

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wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 11:12 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

dis!!!!!!

FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 1:48 PM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

DIS!!!!!

Not only was this the most awesome surprise to see you here...but you dragged out Finally Happy too!!! It's a twofer!

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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 drowninginsorrow (original poster member #4545) posted at 8:53 PM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Ohmygosh!! Nostalgia - good times, good times. Miss you guys :)

God ive missed the blinking smiley too! Lol

Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics

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sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 9:04 PM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Hi dis!! Good to see you again....don't know if you remember me, but I do remember you....and the Matt Groening quote always jumped out at me, too. :o)

Glad you're still doing great!

You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

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 drowninginsorrow (original poster member #4545) posted at 9:06 PM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

Sad, hon, of course I remember you. Good to see old friends

Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics

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