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drowninginsorrow posted 10/18/2013 20:02 PM

Hi everyone :) I don't recognize many names, although SI was a huge part of my life for a while. That's good right?! It means a LOT of people have moved on, and THAT is awesome. Because that is the concept that's almost impossible to envision after dday. That you WILL move on, move forward, move onward, and be ok. Dday was about 9 yrs ago for me. Our 18th anniversary is Monday. A lot has happened in our lives. Honestly if I did a life together review I probably would be hard pressed to think of the A as an event to include. It really does just fade away.

I'm so sorry for the pain that brings everyone here. It's a good place to have found. One of the unexpected benefits of SI is I found deep, lifelong, life changing friendships here. DS and MH (love you sugar boogers!) have my eternal gratitude for providing this safe, healing place. I hope you all find what you need here!

travels posted 10/18/2013 20:08 PM

(Me waving wildly)
Hi DS!!! We miss you!

LA44 posted 10/18/2013 20:10 PM

Nice to read this post. Thanks for your positive update! Looks like you are a fellow Canadian too.

drowninginsorrow posted 10/18/2013 20:10 PM

Well ho lee shit! A familiar face!! Lol
*wave*. How ya been? :)

And hello fellow Canuck ! :)

[This message edited by drowninginsorrow at 8:11 PM, October 18th (Friday)]

SurprisinglyOkay posted 10/18/2013 20:21 PM

Thanks!!

sri624 posted 10/18/2013 22:29 PM

thank you so much for dropping you. your posts gives me hope...that you can really move past this and be happy again.

sri624 posted 10/18/2013 22:30 PM

thank you so much for dropping you. your posts gives me hope...that you can really move past this and be happy again.

Jrazz posted 10/18/2013 22:36 PM

Hi!

Your Matt Groening quote and location zinger reserves you a spot in my BFF bucket, just so you know.

ThoughtIKnewYa posted 10/18/2013 22:45 PM

HI, dis!!!

FinallyHappy posted 10/18/2013 22:54 PM

dis!!!!

Do you remember the time you made deep fried Snickers bars and posted a pictorial on F&G?

Or when we both decided to forgo vacuums and just rake our rugs?

Ahhhhhhhh. Good times. I miss you!

MovingUpward posted 10/18/2013 23:05 PM

Hi DIS!!!

Pentup posted 10/18/2013 23:06 PM

Dis! Always loved your tag line, though I do a quick head spin for ice weasels when it snows now
Great t o see you re doing well

jo2love posted 10/18/2013 23:26 PM

Awesome update!! It's great to hear positive, uplifting stories.

click4it posted 10/18/2013 23:34 PM

((((((((((((DIS)))))))))))))

StillGoing posted 10/19/2013 00:40 AM

I am pretty sure this qualifies you for hero status, so if the world is attacked by alien zombie demons then you're required by law to defend the planet.

wifehad5 posted 10/19/2013 05:12 AM

dis!!!!!!

Deeply Scared posted 10/19/2013 07:48 AM

DIS!!!!!

Not only was this the most awesome surprise to see you here...but you dragged out Finally Happy too!!! It's a twofer!

drowninginsorrow posted 10/19/2013 14:53 PM

Ohmygosh!! Nostalgia - good times, good times. Miss you guys :)

God ive missed the blinking smiley too! Lol

sad12008 posted 10/19/2013 15:04 PM

Hi dis!! Good to see you again....don't know if you remember me, but I do remember you....and the Matt Groening quote always jumped out at me, too. :o)

Glad you're still doing great!

drowninginsorrow posted 10/19/2013 15:06 PM

Sad, hon, of course I remember you. Good to see old friends