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drowninginsorrow
♀ 4545
Member # 4545 |  Posted: 8:02 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 |     |
Hi everyone :) I don't recognize many names, although SI was a huge part of my life for a while. That's good right?! It means a LOT of people have moved on, and THAT is awesome. Because that is the concept that's almost impossible to envision after dday. That you WILL move on, move forward, move onward, and be ok. Dday was about 9 yrs ago for me. Our 18th anniversary is Monday. A lot has happened in our lives. Honestly if I did a life together review I probably would be hard pressed to think of the A as an event to include. It really does just fade away.
I'm so sorry for the pain that brings everyone here. It's a good place to have found. One of the unexpected benefits of SI is I found deep, lifelong, life changing friendships here. DS and MH (love you sugar boogers!) have my eternal gratitude for providing this safe, healing place. I hope you all find what you need here!
Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics
Posts: 56712 | Registered: Jun 2004 | From: canuckistan |
travels
♀ 20334
Member # 20334 | | Posted: 8:08 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
(Me waving wildly)
Hi DS!!! We miss you!
When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
Posts: 3794 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: PA |
LA44
♀ 38384
Member # 38384 | | Posted: 8:10 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
Nice to read this post. Thanks for your positive update! Looks like you are a fellow Canadian too.
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
Posts: 2968 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh |
drowninginsorrow
♀ 4545
Member # 4545 | | Posted: 8:10 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
Well ho lee shit! A familiar face!! Lol
*wave*. How ya been? :)
And hello fellow Canuck ! :) [This message edited by drowninginsorrow at 8:11 PM, October 18th (Friday)]
Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics
Posts: 56712 | Registered: Jun 2004 | From: canuckistan |
SurprisinglyOkay
♀ 36684
Member # 36684 | | Posted: 8:21 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
Thanks!!
FWS me 37 (recovering addict)
BS him 40 AFrayedKnot
Together 8 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
Posts: 1158 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B |
sri624
♀ 33956
Member # 33956 | | Posted: 10:29 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
thank you so much for dropping you. your posts gives me hope...that you can really move past this and be happy again.
BS (41):(Former Doormat)
WS (39):(Busted Cheater)
Married: 10 years, 3 kids under 5
DD1: 10/11 PA/EA with pilates instructor/former stripper.
DD2: 10/12 False r, cheating with other women, online dating,Substance abuse issues.
R:Last chance
Posts: 1053 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Alabama |
sri624
♀ 33956
Member # 33956 | | Posted: 10:30 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
thank you so much for dropping you. your posts gives me hope...that you can really move past this and be happy again.
BS (41):(Former Doormat)
WS (39):(Busted Cheater)
Married: 10 years, 3 kids under 5
DD1: 10/11 PA/EA with pilates instructor/former stripper.
DD2: 10/12 False r, cheating with other women, online dating,Substance abuse issues.
R:Last chance
Posts: 1053 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Alabama |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 10:36 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
Hi!
Your Matt Groening quote and location zinger reserves you a spot in my BFF bucket, just so you know. 
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20949 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 10:45 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
HI, dis!!! 
Posts: 11814 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
FinallyHappy
♀ 308
Member # 308 | | Posted: 10:54 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
dis!!!!
Do you remember the time you made deep fried Snickers bars and posted a pictorial on F&G?
Or when we both decided to forgo vacuums and just rake our rugs?
Ahhhhhhhh. Good times. I miss you!
"Be civil to all; sociable to many; familiar with few; friend to one; enemy to none."
~Ben~
Posts: 7364 | Registered: Jul 2002 | From: WI |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 | | Posted: 11:05 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
Hi DIS!!!
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 53984 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
Pentup
♀ 20563
Member # 20563 | | Posted: 11:06 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
Dis! Always loved your tag line, though I do a quick head spin for ice weasels when it snows now 
Great t o see you re doing well
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
Posts: 6871 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 11:26 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
Awesome update!! It's great to hear positive, uplifting stories.
Posts: 38300 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 | | Posted: 11:34 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013 | |
((((((((((((DIS)))))))))))))
Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25649 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
StillGoing
♂ 28571
Member # 28571 | | Posted: 12:40 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013 | |
I am pretty sure this qualifies you for hero status, so if the world is attacked by alien zombie demons then you're required by law to defend the planet.
"He didn't say "That's weird." He wouldn't have said "That's weird" if a flock of sheep had cycled past playing violins. It wasn't the sort of thing a responsible engineer said." - Good Omens
Posts: 7816 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA |
wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162 | | Posted: 5:12 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013 | |
dis!!!!!!
FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12
The people you do your life with shape the life you live
Posts: 39074 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan |
Deeply Scared
♀ 2
Member # 2 | | Posted: 7:48 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013 | |
DIS!!!!!
Not only was this the most awesome surprise to see you here...but you dragged out Finally Happy too!!! It's a twofer!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Posts: 201010 | Registered: May 2002 |
drowninginsorrow
♀ 4545
Member # 4545 | | Posted: 2:53 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Ohmygosh!! Nostalgia - good times, good times. Miss you guys :)
God ive missed the blinking smiley too! Lol
Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics
Posts: 56712 | Registered: Jun 2004 | From: canuckistan |
sad12008
♀ 18179
Member # 18179 | | Posted: 3:04 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Hi dis!! Good to see you again....don't know if you remember me, but I do remember you....and the Matt Groening quote always jumped out at me, too. :o)
Glad you're still doing great!
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
Posts: 3953 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together |
drowninginsorrow
♀ 4545
Member # 4545 | | Posted: 3:06 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Sad, hon, of course I remember you. Good to see old friends
Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics
Posts: 56712 | Registered: Jun 2004 | From: canuckistan |
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