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Topic: My parents
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wannabenormal
♀ 19772
Member # 19772 |  Posted: 1:11 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013 |     |
Left a shitty VM telling me and sibling we should consider ourselves orphans. That is weird, right?
Posts: 14456 | Registered: Jun 2008 |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 1:16 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Really weird. Any backstory at all? Are they the types where if you're not exactly like them then you're the devil? 
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20786 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 10:23 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Posts: 38241 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 10:29 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013 | |
That is weird, especially if it's out of the blue with no context.
Anything going on with them right now, like health concerns or an estrangement?
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28242 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 | | Posted: 4:13 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013 | |
(((Wanna)))
Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25019 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240 | | Posted: 6:17 PM, October 20th (Sunday), 2013 | |
How old are they? Any chance someone is preying on them? [This message edited by sisoon at 6:18 PM, October 20th (Sunday)]
fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I
Posts: 11106 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area |
suposd2btheonly1
♀ 40753
Member # 40753 | | Posted: 7:09 PM, October 20th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Very weird.
((((Wanna))))
Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head
Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma |
ajsmom
♀ 17460
Member # 17460 | | Posted: 9:17 AM, October 21st (Monday), 2013 | |
WHAT?
That's all the message said?
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!
Posts: 21163 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back |
Myname
♂ 23138
Member # 23138 | | Posted: 5:50 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013 | |
Where did this come from? Has your relationship with them been strained?
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 38
12-08-10: S
Posts: 3383 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Inside your computer. |
cissie
♀ 17637
Member # 17637 | | Posted: 7:41 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013 | |
How old are they? Are they on any medications? Some medications react very differently in older people. If it is from them both though, I would wonder if someone has not developed an unhealthy influence over them.
I have seen it happen.
Posts: 566 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: limbo |
wannabenormal
♀ 19772
Member # 19772 | | Posted: 11:19 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
My parents are relatively young; 62 & 65.
We've gone from August until New Year's Eve without speaking.
*I* sent an email saying this is ridic and let's reconnect; life is too short. My mom (the problem) said SURE!! Then didn't pick up my call this weekend or return my VM.
Sometimes it's really ok to let people out of your life. People you didn't miss anyway.
Posts: 14456 | Registered: Jun 2008 |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 11:25 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((wanna)))
I'm so sorry. 
Posts: 38241 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
wannabenormal
♀ 19772
Member # 19772 | | Posted: 1:11 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014 | |
Thanks Jo. I think it just really reconfirmed what I knew all along.
Honestly, it's their loss. I'm a great person and I know that. My kids are great too, once again, their loss for not wanting to know us. We have plenty of other love to go 'round.
Posts: 14456 | Registered: Jun 2008 |
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