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wannabenormal (original poster member #19772) posted at 7:11 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013
Left a shitty VM telling me and sibling we should consider ourselves orphans. That is weird, right?
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:16 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013
Really weird. Any backstory at all? Are they the types where if you're not exactly like them then you're the devil? 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 4:23 PM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:29 PM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013
That is weird, especially if it's out of the blue with no context.
Anything going on with them right now, like health concerns or an estrangement?
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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 10:13 PM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:17 AM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
How old are they? Any chance someone is preying on them?
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suposd2btheonly1 ( member #40753) posted at 1:09 AM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
Very weird.
((((Wanna))))
Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 3:17 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
WHAT?
That's all the message said?
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Myname ( member #23138) posted at 11:50 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
Where did this come from? Has your relationship with them been strained?
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 45
12-08-10: S
Divorced and moved on with my life.
cissie ( member #17637) posted at 1:41 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
How old are they? Are they on any medications? Some medications react very differently in older people. If it is from them both though, I would wonder if someone has not developed an unhealthy influence over them.
I have seen it happen.
wannabenormal (original poster member #19772) posted at 5:19 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014
My parents are relatively young; 62 & 65.
We've gone from August until New Year's Eve without speaking.
*I* sent an email saying this is ridic and let's reconnect; life is too short. My mom (the problem) said SURE!! Then didn't pick up my call this weekend or return my VM.
Sometimes it's really ok to let people out of your life. People you didn't miss anyway.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:25 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014
(((wanna)))
I'm so sorry. 
wannabenormal (original poster member #19772) posted at 7:11 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2014
Thanks Jo. I think it just really reconfirmed what I knew all along.
Honestly, it's their loss. I'm a great person and I know that. My kids are great too, once again, their loss for not wanting to know us. We have plenty of other love to go 'round.
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