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wannabenormal posted 10/19/2013 01:11 AM

Left a shitty VM telling me and sibling we should consider ourselves orphans. That is weird, right?

Jrazz posted 10/19/2013 01:16 AM

Really weird. Any backstory at all? Are they the types where if you're not exactly like them then you're the devil?

jo2love posted 10/19/2013 10:23 AM

(((Wanna)))

nowiknow23 posted 10/19/2013 10:29 AM

That is weird, especially if it's out of the blue with no context.

Anything going on with them right now, like health concerns or an estrangement?

jrc1963 posted 10/19/2013 16:13 PM

(((Wanna)))

sisoon posted 10/20/2013 18:17 PM

How old are they? Any chance someone is preying on them?

[This message edited by sisoon at 6:18 PM, October 20th (Sunday)]

suposd2btheonly1 posted 10/20/2013 19:09 PM

Very weird.

((((Wanna))))

ajsmom posted 10/21/2013 09:17 AM

WHAT?

That's all the message said?

AJ's MOM

Myname posted 10/21/2013 17:50 PM

Where did this come from? Has your relationship with them been strained?

cissie posted 10/21/2013 19:41 PM

How old are they? Are they on any medications? Some medications react very differently in older people. If it is from them both though, I would wonder if someone has not developed an unhealthy influence over them.
I have seen it happen.

wannabenormal posted 1/5/2014 23:19 PM

My parents are relatively young; 62 & 65.

We've gone from August until New Year's Eve without speaking.

*I* sent an email saying this is ridic and let's reconnect; life is too short. My mom (the problem) said SURE!! Then didn't pick up my call this weekend or return my VM.

Sometimes it's really ok to let people out of your life. People you didn't miss anyway.

jo2love posted 1/5/2014 23:25 PM

(((wanna)))

I'm so sorry.

wannabenormal posted 1/6/2014 01:11 AM

Thanks Jo. I think it just really reconfirmed what I knew all along.

Honestly, it's their loss. I'm a great person and I know that. My kids are great too, once again, their loss for not wanting to know us. We have plenty of other love to go 'round.

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