im 35. have two great kids, and a WH
I always thought we would have 5 kids, and then when my baby was just a few months old, WH left with OW. that was 2009. Its taken this long to get back to a place where I feel like we might even actually have another kid.
WH was gone 1 year with OW, and then left her and we continued to be separated but going to therapy for 20 months.
(WH was undiagnosed bipolar, and addicted to prescription dugs at the time)
I have several issues-- I am not secure in R enough to have another kid, and my family who was there for me when WH went off the deep end would FLIP. (I think... maybe not)
We are still not financially stable (WH is bipolar, and went nuts spending, so we are trying to get back on budgets)
I don't know if wh really wants another, either.
But, I really want another, and am getting older... Im not saying NOW, but maybe try in 6 mos, a year...