Topic: Alright, who from SI is responsible for...
Member # 30720
| Posted: 7:13 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013|
the top "I love you but I'm not in love with you" definition on Urban Dictionary (not the acronym, but the full phrase).
Me: BS, 34
Him: (SA/NPD)WH, 31
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Posts: 418 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: West Coast Canada
Member # 36072
| Posted: 8:55 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013|
Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.
Posts: 1199 | Registered: Jul 2012
Member # 41038
| Posted: 9:00 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013|
Oh, that's priceless!!! Thank you for that!
The stones from my enemies, these wounds will mend
but I cannot survive the roses from my friends
Posts: 1898 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast
Member # 40184
| Posted: 9:42 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013|
OMG I am literally rolling on the floor laughing my ass off
"Such individuals are limited in both intellect and in normal socialization skills. "
This part just killed me!!!!!!!
1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
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Posts: 373 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 26651
| Posted: 9:48 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013|
Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/34 The kidlets: DS14, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
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Posts: 11592 | Registered: Dec 2009
Member # 36307
| Posted: 11:32 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013|
Well I just peed my pants laughing.
BS: Me (63yo)
FWH: HIM (65yo) serial infidelities over past 35 years
OW: Many, most recent 1/2 his age
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2012 when I presented evidence, plus LTA with his friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over past year
Posts: 626 | Registered: Jul 2012
Member # 28997
| Posted: 11:43 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013|
Alright, who from SI is responsible for the top "I love you but I'm not in love with you" definition on Urban Dictionary
Well I wish it was me.
I really do.
Clearly this was written by a very intelligent person with an enviable ways with words such as myself.
I would love to take the credit but as I am an honest person I just can't.
But it is soooooooo..... beautiful.
Married 32yrs Me BW 58Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"
Posts: 2758 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
Member # 16482
| Posted: 1:18 PM, October 20th (Sunday), 2013|
Here's the quote...
Phrase used exclusively by shallow self-absorbed individuals who actually have no concept of what it means to love or be loved. Their hearts are vacant and usually associate sex not with a deeply emotional or spiritual experience but rather purely a physical and transient act involving no emotion. Such individuals are limited in both intellect and in normal socialization skills. People who use this overused cliche usually suffer from a combination of schizotypal disorder and sociopathy. A catch-all phrase when the person doing the dumping knows there is no reason for the relationship to end, other than for purely selfish reasons of wanting to pursue sexual relations with other individuals outside of the current relationship.
Now I need a "like" button.
I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.
Posts: 9588 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
Member # 26465
| Posted: 1:23 PM, October 20th (Sunday), 2013|
There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing
Posts: 3198 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
Member # 25743
| Posted: 10:23 PM, October 20th (Sunday), 2013|
Whooooooo! That is some kind of good! I have never read a more descriptive or accurate definition in my life.
Posts: 469 | Registered: Oct 2009
Member # 40115
| Posted: 10:25 PM, October 20th (Sunday), 2013|
I just signed up for the Urban Dictionary so I could 'like' this definition.
Edited to correct stupid typos.
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Posts: 1971 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
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