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Topic: in good place...

LadyQ
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Posted: 4:27 PM, October 20th (Sunday), 2013

I guess you're in a good place when you look at your cell phone and realize that today would've been your 23rd wedding anniversary, and your only reaction is "huh, is that today?"

For all those out there struggling, it does get better!

Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011

phmh
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Posted: 4:38 PM, October 20th (Sunday), 2013

Indifference is so amazing. Great job getting there!

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

Posts: 3692 | Registered: Dec 2011

welcome14
♀ 26741
Member # 26741

Posted: 8:46 PM, October 20th (Sunday), 2013

My 25th would have been the 28th of this month. Nothing but a small pang of sadness that I waited so long to be rid of him, and what I could've accomplished in those 25 years. But I realize he's lost a lot more by losing me. He remarried on my birthday weekend last month, don't know if that was to hurt me or not, but I found that it didn't matter at all except that I felt truly sorry for his victim, I mean wife....

Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.

Posts: 1293 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell

Pass
♂ 38122
Member # 38122

Posted: 8:49 PM, October 20th (Sunday), 2013

That's great, Q. Dying to get to that point!

Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous

Posts: 2158 | Registered: Jan 2013

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