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User Topic: And then my marriage blew up..
imwideawake
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Default  Posted: 6:41 AM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's all I say anymore when talking about my life. No need to give the whole story, he cheated, we tried to make it work for 3 yrs, blah blah. Nope, just, my marriage blew up. I kind of like that. If someone asks I tell, but I no longer feel the need to explain why we divorced. This was a milestone I was looking forward to and hoping to reach. I'm glad I'm there!

[This message edited by imwideawake at 1:55 PM, October 21st (Monday)]


Together 21 years.
Married 19
Me: BW, now 45
Him XWH
dday 9/08
3 daughters, now 20, 19, & 16
Divorced 12/04/12

Posts: 917 | Registered: Mar 2009
TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so glad you have reached this milestone. Everyone thinks their life will come to an end when they D, but they eventually realize that it doesn't. Once you reach the place of indifference, you actually look at it as a blessing in decise.


BW-52
WH#2-53
M-10 yrs T-12 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
DD#4-11/28/14 He ran off to be with OW after assaulting me
Divorcing

Posts: 2488 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2819 | Registered: Jan 2010
k94ever
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Member # 11176
Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I refer to it as "when my life imploded".


k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6635 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I refer to it as the time he wanted every woman he met to fu*k him and I needed one man to love only me. It was 15 years this past spring--and I rarely think of it any more unless I am commenting on someone else's posts. Believe it or not, you will get there, too.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7518 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
imwideawake
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the replies. Last year at this time I was waiting for divorce to be finalized. It was an intense phase. Now I'm so much more relaxed. It took a while to get there. Divorce seemed like such a heavy word then.


Together 21 years.
Married 19
Me: BW, now 45
Him XWH
dday 9/08
3 daughters, now 20, 19, & 16
Divorced 12/04/12

Posts: 917 | Registered: Mar 2009
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 7:47 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep! There is life after divorce.

I like your metaphor. Mine also blew up.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7865 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
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