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Topic: Vacation contact

sunsetslost
♂ 39885
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Posted: 1:36 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013

I'm on vacation. I'm seeing friends and family that have been nothing short of fantastic through my ordeal. Last night I got a series of text messages regarding the football game that was on. I don't know if STBX was drunk, lonely or what. I ignored them. In fact my friend took away my phone. This morning I sent her an email about open enrollment at her job and her progress in her attempt to refinance the house. Keeping it all business. She is on the fence about keeping me on her policy. I told her just until the divorce, then she can drop me. It's the first time I've used the "D" word in contact with her. It's always been "when the time comes" or referred to as "the pending legal proceedings". Felt good. Hope it shook her. I hope she leaves me alone the rest of the week. I was perfectly at peace floating on my noodle until she contacted.

Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 799 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.

Pass
♂ 38122
Member # 38122

Posted: 4:33 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013

I was a long time before using that word too. Felt great. I don't know if she gave a shit.

Enjoy your noodle!

Me: 47
Two sons: Born 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?

Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3407 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada

sunsetslost
♂ 39885
Member # 39885

Posted: 4:34 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013

Hey pass,

Check out my other post today!

Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 799 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.

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