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SabbyKat (original poster new member #40800) posted at 9:30 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
OW posted a new ultrasound.I have mixed feelings.Not 100% sure it is my SO's.It is eating at me.
Healing2012 ( member #35238) posted at 9:38 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
I am really sorry you're dealing with all this crap. What has your SO said about all of this? Does he think it's his?
I'm assuming they can't determine paternity until the OC is born, but is there a chance the OW has been with other men?
I'm sorry if I'm asking too many questions 
Just know that there are people listening and sending you strength...
BS: Me (46)
XH: Husband (52)
Married 10 years
Two children 11 & 23 (my stepson)
D-day #1: 12/18/11
D-day #2: 8/26/12 (still in contact w/ OW)
Status: Divorced - 6/18/15
plainpain ( member #40139) posted at 9:43 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
I'm so very sorry. My H's AP is pregnant also. I thought she was lying until she posted the ultrasound as her profile pic. 
Me: Believer, 40s
Him: Liar, 40s
Married 19 years
1 year EA/2 month PA/incidental infidelities I can't begin to process
OC born 2014
OW:21
In successful R. It only hurts now when it rains.
SabbyKat (original poster new member #40800) posted at 9:43 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
it is possible it is his.They had unprotected sex.He is one of 3 men now.
Healing2012 ( member #35238) posted at 9:51 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
I'm keeping both of you ladies in my thoughts. I don't know how I would react to that situation. It just boggles my mind that these OW are proud of the lives they're destroying - proud enough to post pictures on FB.
BS: Me (46)
XH: Husband (52)
Married 10 years
Two children 11 & 23 (my stepson)
D-day #1: 12/18/11
D-day #2: 8/26/12 (still in contact w/ OW)
Status: Divorced - 6/18/15
Truly ( member #40715) posted at 10:01 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
So sorry you are dealing with this.
I don't really understand the idea behind posting an ultrasound picture...they prove nothing as you can download them from websites .
Personally my pregnancies were private not public fodder. Just my 2cents.
Hope these are proven to be erroneous for both sabbykat and plainpain.
((((hugs))))
There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens
SabbyKat (original poster new member #40800) posted at 8:20 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Now the OW is making cryptic comments about something being wrong with the baby on FB
Healing2012 ( member #35238) posted at 9:19 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Hmm...could she have been seeking attention and made up the whole thing? I hate that I'm so skeptical, but I wouldn't put it past an OW.
BS: Me (46)
XH: Husband (52)
Married 10 years
Two children 11 & 23 (my stepson)
D-day #1: 12/18/11
D-day #2: 8/26/12 (still in contact w/ OW)
Status: Divorced - 6/18/15
SabbyKat (original poster new member #40800) posted at 9:21 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
the ultrasound pics look legit.But,who knows what she has up her sleeve.I swear she is baby daddy surfer
tryingmybest2011 ( member #32584) posted at 9:45 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Now the OW is making cryptic comments about something being wrong with the baby on FB
Planting seeds so her FB friends will believe her later, after the hoax has run it's course.
BS: me - 42
WH: him - 42
DD: 12
DD: 5
Married over 12 years, together for 21.
DD#1: 12/12/10 - LTA of 3 years, 2 mos.
DD#2: 02/02/11 - 2 EA/PA with coworkers, a month after the LTA was ended (by OW).
Swims ( member #30992) posted at 10:04 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Sabby, look very carefully at the ultrasound she has posted. Does it have any identifying information... her name or DOB? It would be very easy to post an ultrasound from the web. Look carefully!!! And please look after yourself!
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 10:05 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
STOP
LOOKING
AT
HER
FACEBOOK
All you are doing is wrapping yourself around the crazy pole.
IF the pregnancy is real, nothing can be proved until the baby is born and then you get the DNA testing done.
Until then there is nothing you can do.
Stop dancing around the crazy pole.
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
Truly ( member #40715) posted at 1:55 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013
Grrrr
I hate Fb. Stay away, it will just hurt you all the time and make you as crazy as me!(An impossibility, I fear!)
Fingers crossed it is all lies x
Cos, let's be honest, liars lie...
There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens
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