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sunsetslost (original poster member #39885) posted at 10:14 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
Hello friends,
An hour ago I got an email from STBX. Her application to refinance the house has been formally approved. It was the last hurdle. I'm free.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 10:24 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 10:27 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
what a beautiful word ... "free"!!
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 10:36 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
Fan freaking tastic!!!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 1:13 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Yeah!!!
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 1:15 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 1:18 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Breath the "free" air and enjoy!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 1:54 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Are you going to the noodle store?
Will they give you a copy to frame?
Congrats.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 12:14 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 2:46 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
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