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Topic: Not Cancer!

Skan
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Posted: 8:11 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013

My FWH finally got a call from his doctor today. While his biopsy results are not normal (prostrate biopsy), he has abnormal cells and at least today, not cancer. He goes back in 8 weeks to have a more pin-point biopsy to check. There is a 50% chance that the cells will be cancerous, at some point, so obviously we will be checking often, but at least right now, it's not cancer.

Plus, he starts his new job next Monday. Thank God. Things are looking up for us! Thank you for all of your mojo and good wishes!

Guess I know what he's getting for Christmas!

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 5560 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California

Jrazz
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Posted: 8:20 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013

Yay! I'm so glad to hear it.

"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron

Posts: 20938 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California

MovingUpward
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Posted: 8:21 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013

Yay!!!!!!!

AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Posts: 53984 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation

LosferWords
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Posted: 8:21 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013

That's great news, Skan! I'll continue to keep my fingers crossed and will keep sending mojo your way. Glad things are looking up!

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HFSSC
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Member # 33338

Posted: 8:22 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013

Whew! I am so glad for y'all.

Me, 48
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 18 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 3072 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina

tushnurse
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Member # 21101

Posted: 8:49 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013

Thank goodness. Prostate Cancer while scary for all, often times is a slowly progressing disease. It has often been described as something you die with, not from. May this also be true in your case.

It certainly is for my dad and step FIL.

((((( and strength )))))

Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 9202 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis

jo2love
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Posted: 9:40 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013

Wonderful update!!

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sad12008
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Posted: 9:44 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013

I know that's a big relief!

Really glad it's not bad news, Skan!!

You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

Posts: 3953 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together

nowiknow23
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Posted: 10:03 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013

Whew!

You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön

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