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I would like to personally thank my xwh and mow for.....

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 1:29 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

My excellent gas points lately at Kroger (a local grocery store!)

Last night I got .40 cents off a gallon, 2 weeks ago .30 cents a gallon, and 4 weeks ago .50 cents off a gallon!!

When he fought me in court and I had to move out of our home and into my dad's house throughout the divorce until I could find my own place, I continued to use "our old home phone number" as my Kroger discount number at the store. I know that is what XWH does...and I'm "almost" positive MOW probably uses it now too...

Does it backfire on me? Absolutely...sometimes he beats me to the punch and gets the discount since I also use the same number.... but over the past month and a half...I'm pretty sure I've gotten all of it... (I even purposely shopped at Wal-Mart and didn't buy anything at Kroger recently, but got my gas there last night..and STILL got .40 cents off!

Is it ethically right? Not technically... Is it my own self-propelled karma... OH YEAH!!!

I just picture him methodically saving up his gas points and buying tons of food at Kroger (cause he is a male pig eating the equivalent of 3 people - bodybuilds and runs...etc) and then....

WHOOMP THERE IT IS.... .03 cents off a gallon!!!

YOU ARE WELCOME EX-DEAR!!!

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 1:32 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

And the title was SUPPOSED to say

"I would like to personally thank my xwh and mow for" (not MOM! )

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 1:35 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

I changed the title for you

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 2:13 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

Love it She11ybeanz.

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 2:28 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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cayc ( member #21964) posted at 2:37 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

My xWH still pays for my satellite radio in my car (and I LOVE my satellite radio) ... I keep expecting him to realize it and remove my radio from his account but he hasn't done it yet. Since he's autobilled for it, I bet he's never even bothered to look at what he's being charged for

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woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 2:40 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

I have used Assclown and Skank's phone number at the pumps several times myself. Though we only ever get 10 or 20 cents off per gallon here in CA.

I figure I'm due something for all the bullshit they put me through.

In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 2:44 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

I changed the title for you

Thank you VERY much!

I figure I'm due something for all the bullshit they put me through.

My point exactly!!! He probably goes to fill up that gas guzzling Ford Expedition of his and is like.... "WTH???!!!"

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 8:45 AM, October 22nd (Tuesday)]

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 4:37 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013

Way to go Shel! Small victories are the best.

When we were first separated I still had some automatic bills paid out of what had been our joint banking account. It was an error, I didn't realize those bills wouldn't follow me to my new account. Oh well. He never said anything to me about it because he probably never balanced his checking account! I figured we were even because of the joint account money he had spent on his skank before I knew what was going on...

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 5:13 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013

I use XWH's phone # at Petsmart for the discount so I don't have to buy the membership.

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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