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 maddmurph (original poster member #40940) posted at 2:43 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

Trying to pay attention to work and get things done. It's just busy filing stuff that I have been ignoring so it's not holding my attention. I keep drifting to the conversation I need to have with her tonight. I keep thinking about how to pay for the retainer on the lawyer. I need to look at a budget to make sure I can afford everything I'm proposing.

Then I get wracked with guilt because I think she is trying, just not trying hard enough.

Glad IC is today.

Me - BS, 33
Her - WW, 33
DS 7, DD 3

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Thefly559 ( member #40268) posted at 2:50 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2013

read your post , not too much to tell you other than to stay strong and I am here with you. As far as money goes, you will find a way. That I can guarantee.

"respect? you don't deserve it, you won't get any from me unless you earn it"

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:45 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013

(((madmurph)))

I hear you. I had the attention span of a knat for quite a while after Dday. It does get better. I hope your IC appt went well. Sending you strength.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 6:46 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)]

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Thessalian ( member #40633) posted at 1:15 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013

Totally hear you. I can concentrate for about 2 hours at a time, if that.

Me: BW, 30
Him: WH, 36

7 years of double-digit ONS, LTA, hookers - the works.

First found out: August 20, 2013
Whole truth: January 1, 2014

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Truly ( member #40715) posted at 1:19 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013

...with you on this...

A haunts you...

Possible conversations haunt you...

Newly revealed TT haunts you...

I know this cos right now I'm booking airline tickets (cough cough)

Hope IC helps

Sigh

There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens



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