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User Topic: Is there a place to ask a WS question?
♀ 41040
Member # 41040
Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is there someplace a BS can put a question to the WS? It nothing mean, just someone to help me put it into perspective? I'll put it here in case he admins can just move it! Lol

What is the reason for TT? My WS started with "it's just an EA". Of course more is coming out. They kissed. Well, they kissed in her hotel room, well they kissed in her bed in her hotel room. He asked if he should look at apartments this morning. I told him if he could look me in eye and tell me nothing more will come out, he just sighed. Now he is looking at apartments. Why not just get it all out there? He claims "because there will always be more for you, you will always think something more happened." Well, yeah, because more keeps coming out. I don't get this. Why prolong my pain and his feelings of guilt. Because I am assuming its hard for him to carry that around day after day. He told me about the EA out of supposed guilt. Said he thought that would be more devastating to me than a PA. I'm just don't get it?

WH -39; BS (me) 41
Married 15 years, 3 kiddos
First DDay 9/13. TT and 3 more DDays in the 6 months to follow. Trying to R.

Posts: 261 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southeast United States
♀ 39033
Member # 39033
Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, it's under "I can Relate".

WW 43 (me)
BH 45
Married 24 yrs
3 kids
DDay 2/10/13 Confessed

Posts: 82 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Southern USA
Topic Posts: 2

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