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Topic: IC says emotional abuse
maddmurph
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40940
Member # 40940
Posted: 3:54 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013
At the very least that I an answering like a person who has been.
Me - BS, 33
Her - WW, 33
DS 7, DD 3
At the very least that I an answering like a person who has been.
Posts: 129 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: OH
topperoff22
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40762
Member # 40762
Posted: 3:54 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013
Yeah....I was too.....
BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month
Yeah....I was too..... :sad:
Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
topperoff22
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40762
Member # 40762
Posted: 3:56 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013
On my phone but wanted to add this has horrified my WH and part of the reason he is in IC is because he wants help. His mom abused him. The emotional abuse from him was not our whole marriage.
BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month
On my phone but wanted to add this has horrified my WH and part of the reason he is in IC is because he wants help. His mom abused him. The emotional abuse from him was not our whole marriage.
Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
Lonelygirl10
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39850
Member # 39850
Posted: 4:37 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013
Yeah, my IC says the same thing. I wasn't receptive to that opinion. She described the cycle to me though where he gets distant, I beg, I explode, he apologizes, and then the honeymoon time before he gets distant again. I don't think emotional abuse is always intentional though. I think that someone's personality flaws can cause them to unintentionally emotionally abuse someone.
Yeah, my IC says the same thing. I wasn't receptive to that opinion. She described the cycle to me though where he gets distant, I beg, I explode, he apologizes, and then the honeymoon time before he gets distant again. I don't think emotional abuse is always intentional though. I think that someone's personality flaws can cause them to unintentionally emotionally abuse someone.
Posts: 1748 | Registered: Jul 2013
maddmurph
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40940
Member # 40940
Posted: 7:17 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013
I don't think it's intentional. I'm not even sure she knows she is doing it. But that's one more thing for me to work through.
Me - BS, 33
Her - WW, 33
DS 7, DD 3
I don't think it's intentional. I'm not even sure she knows she is doing it. But that's one more thing for me to work through.
Posts: 129 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: OH
Topic Posts: 5
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