When you're ready, post more explaining your situation and the amazing people on SI will offer tremendous advice and listening ears.
Huge hugs ((((((cyrene)))))
Tell us more about what is happening. We're here for you.
Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16
Is this his step-daughter?
I take it you are raising her daughter?
You say you are disabled & he is now making you sleep elsewhere?
How old is your daughter & WH?
Etc etc etc
Please keep posting. There are MANY great people here who have GREAT advice. Trust me.....follow it cuz they are right.
Many hugs to you.
It's bad enough to deal with the betrayal of a spouse, and even more difficult when other family members are involved.
The best thing you can do right now is to focus on yourself and taking care of your health. Please see a counselor and a doctor to ensure that you have professional support. A consult with a lawyer to find out what rights and options are available is always a good idea too. I also encourage reading through the Healing Library to absorb as much information as possible.
You have a right to find this situation intolerable. This situation is incredibly selfish and destructive. You do deserve better. You have to start thinking about what your needs and boundaries are, and at what point you are willing to walk away from the insanity. Please keep posting - you can count on our support.
[This message edited by devasted30 at 7:53 AM, October 24th (Thursday)]