So about 5 months after Dday we had a big event at the bar I work at. One of my friends brought one of her single friends up. My husband came up later. I was really busy, but smiled when I could and made sure everything was being taken care of.
This single girl happened to be drunk and jumped over our fence which injured her ankle. My husband gave her a ride home. Trust me when I found out I laid into him about it. Definitely not a good boundary.
Next day she sends him a message on facebook to let him know she broke her ankle and gave her cell phone number saying they should hang out sometime.
I of course found this because I was still in detective mode.
Well she showed up the other night and started acting like an snob. She asked my name while ordering a drink and I gave it to her. When I came back I asked her name, then clarified her last name. She asked how I knew her. Told her "You broke your ankle jumping our fence and then proceeded to send my husband, a married man, your phone number through facebook saying you guys should hang out." The look on her face was priceless.
She then proceeded to leave her child at the bar with another couple without warning and then had the child met them out front to be picked up.
I wonder if she will ever approach a married man again.