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I went to my yoga class today. Set up my mat, was by the door setting my stuff down and OW walks in, says to the teacher "this isn't a paid class is it?" and laughs. I was speechless. It took everything I had not to let her have it right there in class. I grabbed my mat and walked out crying. My daughter (14) was sitting outside the door clueless and questioning. That bitch had no reason to stay there except to antagonize me. She knows I go to yoga, she knows that's my safe place. She has never been there before. I HATE her! Now I have to see her again shortly as our kids have activities at the community center at the same time. Bad bad day

I am so sorry, that is just all kinds of WRONG! What a pathetic b*tch that she has nothing better to do with her time than stalk you! Worthless subhuman whore! ( sorry, projecting a little here).

She's less than the dirt on the bottom of your shoe. Step on her!

I would have told her it was a boxing class and let me show you what you missed!

"this isn't a paid class is it?"

well of course a whore would need clarification on that, after all there is confusion between Whore and Prostitute. i.e. the 'paid' part

((LadyYoga)) keep your head up, she does not exist for you, and I dare say that fact is the reason why she had her demonstrative moment in yoga class. Poor muffin appears to dislike being a non-entity.

(((LadyYoga)))
I find this absolutely sacrilegious for her to do this at YOGA!!! The nerve of some people.......
I am so sorry you had to leave like that, beyond unfair!
I wish a "downward dog" right on her A$$, which I am sure is nasty!!!
Ok, let's take a breath and get back to heart center!
This was bad but it will not stop you from doing the yoga you love!
Take care

It is days like this I am so glad the OW moved ten states away. If she was still local I'd flip the hell out.

Your Dday was 3 years ago, what is the story of what is currently going on? If she is exhibiting behavior for this that many years later you may want to look into filing for harassment for something.

Ugh. I would fart in her face during downward dog...

Shortly after DD I discovered Numbnuts had referred the OW to our massage therapist. I had to put my face where hers had been.

I no longer think about it and I think she's moved on, but for awhile it REALLLY PISSED ME OFF.

(((LY)))

[This message edited by FaithFool at 7:22 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)]

I agree sounds like harrassment!
Is she a stalker?

She is just so broken. She's unhappy and still plays the victim card. She's a victim because I hacked her email and "bullied" her. Boo hoo

Oh my. As a fitness instructor this really posses me off. Actually it puts things in a different perspective as my primary concern (selfish I know) has been whether MY OW would walk in to a class I am teaching knowing I have to be professional...
I can't imagine what I would do if it happened to a participant.
Especially with something that is supposed to be as healing and relaxing as yoga.
Is there any way to let your instructor know what's going on?

After I ran to the ladies room, my dd said the instructor came out looking for me. I really did grab my mat and exit fast so I'm sure he was aware something was not right. I could let him know. I'm going to be afraid to go to class from now on :(

Ummmm no you aren't. Don't give her that power. This is YOUR sacred space.

Why would you allow her to chase you away from a place you love? Time for the big girl panties. Reclaim that place for you.