I thought Just Found Out would be the appropriate bucket for this one. Today was my one year anniversary of D-day (part 2...the big one)
We're fully divorced now and living our own lives. Looking back, it's so hard to believe one year ago I was still willing to make it work in spite of all she's done. I never dreamed that I'd be sitting here in a calm place of acceptance.
Don't get me wrong, I would rather have kept my marriage but this is so much better than that emotional roller coaster with that constant feeling of an elephant sitting on hour chest.
To all those newbies who just found out: If you think time won't heal, take heart.... I'm living proof that one day you'll look back on this period and think to yourself "what the he'll was that?"