I feel the same way but for different reasons. My WW has a difficult time tapping into emotions related to us. Although she can cry will watching a fact tv show.
Strange but the healing process, and R with MC have opened my eyes to qualities I am not sure I can live with. I realize no one is perfect and I should love WW for who she is. However the specific issues I am struggling with are the ones that contributed to the A in the first place.