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User Topic: was he always this way?
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Default  Posted: 10:36 AM, October 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Was he always so condescending, I'm right you're wrong, and so belittling? Did our actions mold him into this, or have we both just changed so much? There's a part of me that does not like him now...not this person I see in front of me and when I admit that my heart hurts. I still love him and I like the majority, but I use to like all of him. This is heartwrenching every day.

Madhatter. Separated.

"You must try to generate happiness within yourself. If you aren't happy in one place, chances are you won't be happy anyplace." Ernie Banks

Posts: 3551 | Registered: Oct 2012
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, October 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel the same way but for different reasons. My WW has a difficult time tapping into emotions related to us. Although she can cry will watching a fact tv show.

Strange but the healing process, and R with MC have opened my eyes to qualities I am not sure I can live with. I realize no one is perfect and I should love WW for who she is. However the specific issues I am struggling with are the ones that contributed to the A in the first place.

Me: BH, 44
Her: WW, 43
D day. January 12, 2013

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