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topperoff22 posted 10/25/2013 18:13 PM

I'm confused about what is allowed in reconciliation and what isn't. I thought reconciliation was for those who are ready to move forward, which is what you seem to suggest when you flagged my one post where I called WH a dumbass and AP a whore. So today I open up this forum to get encouragement and all I see is vent, after vent, after vent about "fucktards" and "assholes". Now, I agree with the sentiments of these posters because that's the way their WS are being....but..shouldn't that be in general? just curious i I am reading this wrong?

SI Staff posted 10/25/2013 18:17 PM

The Reconciliation forum description states that there is no OP namecalling or venting in the R forum. Ups and downs are part of reconciliation, and it is not against the guidelines to vent about WSs in there.

If a BS is struggling in R, the R forum is the place to post about it, as long as it stays within the guidelines and forum description.

topperoff22 posted 10/25/2013 18:52 PM

OK, Great! Thank you for clarifying. So I was flagged for calling the OW a dirty name. HOwver, I find this forum counterproductive if it is for reconciliation but people are in here cursing about their spouses. Just an opinion but I understand about the ups and downs too. I will just skip those venting posts from now on. Unless it's my own.

ETA: I am one of those who curses about my WH so I am not throwing stones! Uh-uh!

[This message edited by topperoff22 at 6:53 PM, October 25th (Friday)]

HardenMyHeart posted 10/25/2013 19:20 PM

it is not against the guidelines to vent about WSs in there.

I didn't realize that. Thanks for the clarification.

[This message edited by HardenMyHeart at 7:26 PM, October 25th (Friday)]

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