OK, Great! Thank you for clarifying. So I was flagged for calling the OW a dirty name. HOwver, I find this forum counterproductive if it is for reconciliation but people are in here cursing about their spouses. Just an opinion but I understand about the ups and downs too. I will just skip those venting posts from now on. Unless it's my own.
ETA: I am one of those who curses about my WH so I am not throwing stones! Uh-uh!
[This message edited by topperoff22 at 6:53 PM, October 25th (Friday)]