Well, fences are being climbed by the in laws as the XPervert stomps his way around with OW in tow. He's apparently not decided to wait until he's divorced and all of the world is being forced into her presence now.
I'm feeling a tad stronger as the rumor mill continues to go around and I hear of more people angry at him. I think he thought that people would just take what he's dishing, but I'm relieved to hear that they aren't. No matter what happens with my part, I'm glad to hear that some of them at least have values and morals still to question and be angry.
I know, I know it's not my business to think of anymore and am just waiting to get it out of my head, but it's as if the guy forgot his own upbringing and what a lot of the rest still believe.
I am greatful for the ones who are at least now, standing by my kids and I. One of them didn't even know the "real" story and actually gagged when I told her recently. And some of it went down at her own house...what amazes me anymore is how many lives he touched with it-no one was immune from the hurt and the terrible lies.
And I don't know if they know he lied between them, but I imagine it will come out someday. I don't care as much as I used to, just about the demise of his bubble and watching him lose face.
That will be the karma bus comin' around the mountain, for apparently many still don't know all of the twisted story.
And now with him dragging DD along, it added fuel to the fire and he will have them to deal with.
Thanks for the small rant.
And...I'm happy to say, the crickets are still singing.
I had told him that some of the behavior he was doing I couldn't tolerate and finally have been able to stop all contact, including any speaking to him.
It's very strange, but also, good.
ETA that people still try to say, "I truly didn't know" and I'm finally not caring as much. It feels lighter.
People are seeing who he's become as they are forced to meet her and not liking it either.
I also know that he'll just give them up and surround himself with others and try to fill his unreality again that way.
I think I would be too tired and I'm a bad liar because I forget what I told who.
[This message edited by Ashland13 at 6:39 PM, October 25th (Friday)]
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