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gypsybird87 posted 10/25/2013 19:01 PM

I went out on a late morning coffee/breakfast date today with a guy I met online. I thought I'd be nervous but I wasn't at all. I just knew from talking with him that it would be okay no matter how it turned out.

It was really nice. Good meal, hot coffee, 2+ hours of non-stop conversation and then an hour of walking around and more conversation. Finally a goodbye kiss that was perfect. Not a longgg kiss, not a quick peck either. It's silly I guess but I'm thrilled that XWH is no longer the last person I kissed!

We texted pleasantly after. Guessing I'll see him again... I'm leaving the ball in his court and honestly fine with whatever happens (or doesn't happen) next. I confirmed today that I don't want and am not ready for anything serious, but some fun dates and a little smooching is definitely okay with me.

So glad to have turned another page in my new beginning! Whether this turns into "something", or becomes a friendship, or is just a one time great morning I spent with a nice guy, I'm so glad I went!

ETA: He just texted and asked me out for tomorrow night.

[This message edited by gypsybird87 at 7:37 PM, October 25th (Friday)]

PurpleRose posted 10/25/2013 19:10 PM

That first kiss post divorce is pretty sweet! Yeay for you!

Bluebird26 posted 10/25/2013 20:14 PM

Yah! Enjoy your second date

little turtle posted 10/25/2013 21:27 PM

Glad it was a great time!

Pass posted 10/25/2013 21:52 PM

That's great, gypsy! I'm glad it was so good for you.

curiouswiz posted 10/27/2013 06:17 AM

A kiss! I want a kiss! I want a hug! Yes please.

I'm so happy for you gypsybird! Have a wonderful time on your date!

[This message edited by curiouswiz at 6:18 AM, October 27th (Sunday)]

Blackhair posted 10/27/2013 19:43 PM

We are all happy and cheering here for this "First" kiss, it is beginning of a new life!
You deserve it.Go girl!

woundedby2 posted 10/27/2013 20:04 PM

msk99 posted 10/28/2013 10:13 AM

Great to hear, congrats!!

nowiknow23 posted 10/28/2013 10:24 AM

ChoosingHope posted 10/28/2013 12:51 PM

nutmegkitty posted 10/28/2013 14:17 PM

broken2 posted 10/28/2013 15:56 PM

The first kiss after the divorce is the best! It awakens something you thought you would never feel again. Good for you!!!

Confused1829 posted 10/29/2013 11:29 AM

Woot woot!!! So happy for you, you deserve it!!

Here's to many more lovely smooches in your future! "raising glass"

thebighurt posted 10/29/2013 17:50 PM

So glad you are happy.

Looking for an update on the second date.......?

gypsybird87 posted 10/29/2013 18:03 PM

Thanks for all the congrats! I am so not ready to dive into anything serious, but dipping my toe back in the dating pool feels pretty dang good. If nothing else, its great for the ego, which certainly took a beating during the A and D/S.

Both our weekends got a little hectic so we postponed until tomorrow night. Looking forward to it....

numbandnauseous posted 10/31/2013 23:30 PM

What happened?! Update, please!

TrulyReconciled posted 11/1/2013 16:29 PM

Blackhair posted 11/2/2013 06:23 AM

That is so cute!

persevere posted 11/3/2013 21:12 PM

Hope it went well. :)

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