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User Topic: Needing some SI Mojo
AFrayedKnot
♂ 36622
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are taking back our second biggest trigger today. Feeling pretty good about it. But a little SI mojo could really help.


BS 40
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2813 | Registered: Aug 2012
karmahappens
♀ 35846
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You so got this.

Mojo and strength on the way.

Good luck!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3988 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending bigtime mojo, friend.


(((Chicho & Broevil)))


"It is impossible to get a man to understand something if his livelihood depends on him not understanding." - Upton Sinclair

Posts: 23914 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Count me in.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 11875 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
neverdidithink
♀ 40568
Member # 40568
Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending more mojo your way.


BS, 53
M 9 years
second marriage, second WH
4 kids in their 20s, none together
I have no idea whether we will D or R at this point.

Posts: 420 | Registered: Sep 2013
Dreamland
♀ 40488
Member # 40488
Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

More mojo


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
MsRukia
♀ 40219
Member # 40219
Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo your way!


BS (34)
WS MisterP (37)
Together 14 1/2 years
D Day 03 Aug 13 EA & PA
D Day #2 01 Sep 13 continued EA & PA with OW
Slowly but surely finding my way.

Posts: 177 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Colorado Springs
MsRukia
♀ 40219
Member # 40219
Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo your way!


BS (34)
WS MisterP (37)
Together 14 1/2 years
D Day 03 Aug 13 EA & PA
D Day #2 01 Sep 13 continued EA & PA with OW
Slowly but surely finding my way.

Posts: 177 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Colorado Springs
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending super mojo.

Posts: 40950 | Registered: Mar 2011
LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending massive amounts of mojo your way. Good luck, and take care.


Because It's There - Michael Hedges

Posts: 15446 | Registered: Dec 2010
LA44
♀ 38384
Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's some Canadian mojo, Chicho. It's hearty stuff!


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 3239 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
ILINIA
♀ 39836
Member # 39836
Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

More mojo!


Entering R slowly and cautiously...

Posts: 712 | Registered: Jul 2013
meplusfour
♀ 38958
Member # 38958
Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending some mojo your way. Here it comes.....zap!


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 437 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
TheAmazingWondertwin
♀ 40769
Member # 40769
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Super mojo jojo coming your way!!


Take care of you. Then worry about your M.
Me- BS 40
Him- FWS 36
15 years
DD- 14 and DS- 13
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
full truth: November 14, 2013
A: 3 months
Working on R

Posts: 840 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162
Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You got it


FBH - 43
FWW - 44 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 8 & 13

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 40539 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
PinkJeepLady
♀ 37575
Member # 37575
Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Feel the power cuz it's coming your way!!!
Please let us know how it goes!


Me: BW Him: FWH in our 50's
DDay June 1st 2012
cheated with prostitutes overseas
R-ing

Posts: 522 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you some right now .


Trust is earned when actions meet words. ---Chris Butler

Posts: 44218 | Registered: Sep 2007
SadFlower
♀ 37725
Member # 37725
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And here's some more, Chicho!


Me: BW, age 67
Him: WH, age 65
Married 20 years
In R.

D-Day: August 14, 2012
9 year LTA with former co-worker and family "friend"/7 years EA+PA, 2 more years EA


Posts: 471 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Connecticut
blakesteele
♂ 38044
Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rock on Chicho!


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.

Posts: 5152 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
learningtofeel
♀ 39543
Member # 39543
Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's late in the day, but MOJO en route.


M 1989
3 young adult kids
D-Day 4.13.13
WS (him): 7 OW over 15 years
BS (me): had no clue

Posts: 106 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: United States
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