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Topic: Conga, Conga, Conga... Divorce!

SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229

Posted: 7:05 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013

The sad clown has finally pulled his finger out. Hallelujah!

A long-winded text from the fool. Blah Blah Blah.. Divorce.

FINALLY!

Let him do the running around given how good he is at 'running around'. Let him pay the $800 filing fee.

Let him goad me all he likes. I did take the bait, a bit (I know, I know - kinda like being 'a bit pregnant') but I wasn't mad - it was funny as hell.

Still awesome news.

Divorce here is final one month and one day after the hearing. Everything else is already settled so this is just like cutting the last bees dick of ribbon.

I'd love to send off 2013 legally unencumbered of that sad, sad clown.

Let the party-planning begin! My girlfriends have been inundating me with H-I-L-A-R-I-O-U-S divorce cakes. I didn't even know they existed.

ETA: one of my GFs have suggested there may be some of this kind of dancing involved.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6dUIOfysXo

[This message edited by SBB at 7:57 AM, October 27th (Sunday)]

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5844 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia

FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150

Posted: 11:08 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013

Yee haw!

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 18104 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada

tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697

Posted: 12:15 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013

Holy crap! I didn't realize that you weren't divorced yet!!
Well, this is reason to celebrate!

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4956 | Registered: Jan 2012

Ashland13
♀ 38378
Member # 38378

Posted: 12:22 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013

Good for you, SBB.

Your mindset is where I hope to be someday.

Yep, I've heard of Dparties, cakes, presents...people go on cruises, buy fancy cars and new clothes with their "winnings".

It's a good way to think about it.

Ashland 13

You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

Posts: 2524 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England

Housefulloflove
♀ 38458
Member # 38458

Posted: 12:30 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013

Yay!!

Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA

Phoenix1
♀ 38928
Member # 38928

Posted: 1:04 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013

Congrats! Happier times are ahead!

BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet

Posts: 1380 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!

HurtsButImOK
♀ 38865
Member # 38865

Posted: 2:26 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013

WOOT WOOT.

Best (hopefully) early Christmas present ever!

Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

Posts: 756 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia

SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229

Posted: 3:25 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013

Thank you all - I was at the beach with my girls when I noticed the SMS. I did cartwheels on the beach as well as cartwheels in my mind.

Holy crap! I didn't realize that you weren't divorced yet!!

We have to wait for a 12m S before being eligible for D. That was up in July. I think he thought I was going to save him the time, energy and $800. FTG.

buy fancy cars and new clothes with their "winnings".

Our financial stuff was sorted a few months ago so my only 'winnings' are my freedom and healing. Still awesome.

Best (hopefully) early Christmas present ever!

Fingers crossed! Although I think it takes a few weeks to get a hearing date. Still, a girl can dream.

[This message edited by SBB at 3:26 PM, October 27th (Sunday)]

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5844 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia

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