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Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 8:20 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
I moved back to upstate NY a few months ago. Today, it's 50 degrees outside. I'm watching football wearing long yoga pants, a long-sleeved t shirt and a fuzzy bathrobe--on the couch under a blanket.
I'm in trouble, right? 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 8:22 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
50 degrees? I'd be wearing a parka!
Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 8:26 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Oh honey you are not in UPSTATE NY. 
Had a his convo with AN! Funny what diff parts of NY consider to be upstate!
Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 8:28 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
I second that lucky 
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 8:34 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Oh yeah, LTHM and Chicho, but I'd be in the same position if I were on Long Island (from which this IS upstate NY 
)
Beside, LTHM, we Lawn Guylanders consider where you live to be the Midwest 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 8:35 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
It was 31 here this morning and I thought that I should probably look into fixing the zipper on my fall jacket
Our neighbors had an outdoor Halloween party last night
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 8:46 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Anything over the Tappanzee Bridge is upstate, just sayin'.
I'm sitting here in sweatpants, thermal shirt under another thermal shirt with sleeves that come over my hands (the kind with the thumbhole) under a down vest, and socks of course.
Technically it's not winter yet 
.
So, to answer the question of the original poster...yes, you are in trouble!
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 8:50 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
I'm on my back deck in yoga pants and a thin long sleeve with no socks on and it's around 50.
World of hurt for you come January Sad. 
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 8:50 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
yep, definitely in trouble. but hey, what do I know? I'm the one who keeps a comforter on the back of my couch year round, just in case the AC gets to be too much.
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 8:51 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Last night I volunteered to help with a Trick or Treat Nature Trail at a local state park. To my great relief, I was assigned an indoor role, but I had dressed (I thought) for the evening outside weather.
I probably would have died. It was in the high 30s and started sleeting and snowing before the evening ended. I'm going to have to think these activities through in the future.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 8:52 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Tanktop and flip-flops today.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 8:53 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
As a moderator, I'm putting a stop sign on this thread so anybody who lives in warm weather climates are forbidden to post.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 9:01 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
h0peless understands too; in Tucson, winter weather was 50's during the day.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
HUFI-PUFI ( member #25460) posted at 9:09 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
50 Fahrenheit (10 C)
New Yorkers try to turn on the heat.
Canadians plant gardens.
40 Fahrenheit (4.4 C)
Californians shiver uncontrollably
Canadians Sunbathe.
35 Fahrenheit (1.6 C)
Italian Cars won't start
Canadians drive with the windows down
32 Fahrenheit (0 C)
Distilled water freezes
Canadian water gets thicker.
0 Fahrenheit (-17.9 C)
New York City landlords finally turn on the heat.
Canadians have the last BBQ of the season.
-40 Fahrenheit (-40 C)
Hollywood disintegrates.
Canadians rent some videos.
-60 Fahrenheit (-51 C)
Mt. St. Helen's freezes.
Canadian Girl Guides sell cookies door-to-door.
-100 Fahrenheit (-73 C)
Santa Claus abandons the North Pole
Canadians pull down their earflaps.
-173 Fahrenheit (-114 C)
Ethyl alcohol freezes.
Canadians get frustrated when they can't thaw the keg.
-459.4 Fahrenheit (-273 C)
Absolute zero; all atomic motion stops.
Canadians start saying "cold, eh? "
-500 Fahrenheit (-295 C)
Hell freezes over.
The Toronto Maple Leafs win the Stanley Cup
Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 9:11 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 10:56 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
@ Hufi!!!
Sazzie... It was in the low 60's here this morning... Too cold to mow the lawn.
Yes, we're still mowing lawns down here.
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:36 PM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Our 'mowing' this morning was blowing the 3 feet of leaves we had covering our driveway and deck into the woods.
See, we're still mowing here!!!
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 12:10 AM on Monday, October 28th, 2013
Canadians get frustrated when they can't thaw the keg.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 3:12 AM on Monday, October 28th, 2013
Aww Sad, you're in trouble lol. I walked out last night with a tank top and one of those shrug sweaters that only cover your back and arms (3/4 sleeves), open top shoes, and some jeans. It felt chilly but once I got walking I was good. I sleep with the windows open and a thin sheet (I have a thing about having to be covered when I sleep), my thermostat is turned to 60 (lowest setting) when I am alone in the house, and I was wondering why it's not colder yet. I love this city
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 3:22 AM on Monday, October 28th, 2013
HUFI, I laughed so hard at this, S/O had to pound my back to keep me from choking!
Yep, Sad, you're in trouble. You've lost your edge in AZ and TX!
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
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