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User Topic: Been a long time
mickeymousin
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Member # 1649
Default  Posted: 3:06 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow y'all..when I joined-I was 33 and I am now 41! Where has the time gone. Most of u don't know me. Bit anyone who remembers me and my situation, just wanted to give an update. My husband passed away in June. It's been a rocky road and I still feel lost.....

[This message edited by mickeymousin at 3:07 PM, October 27th (Sunday)]



Real eyes
Realize
Real lies

May those that love us, love us
And those that don't love us,
May God turn their hearts,
And if he doesn't turn their hearts,
May he turn their ankles,
So we'll know them by their limping.



Posts: 1381 | Registered: Jul 2003 | From: Ft Worth Texas
AFrayedKnot
♂ 36622
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Mickeymousin)))


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2668 | Registered: Aug 2012
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((mickeymousin)))

I'm so sorry for your loss.


Posts: 36413 | Registered: Mar 2011
somanyyears
♂ 26970
Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..

..my sincere condolences to you in your loss.

..time is supposed to be the great healer.. allow some time to re-set your life compass.

..smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4134 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449
Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((mickeymousin)))

Posts: 11791 | Registered: Mar 2008
mickeymousin
♀ 1649
Member # 1649
Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel like I should let y'all know who don't know me-my wh tested positive for HIV a few years ago-that's when he finally admitted to cheating...anyways needless to say-that was pretty much the end. I hadn't seen him in the last year before he died. Then about 2 weeks before he passed, I visited. He apologized and I was finally able to forgive him....



Real eyes
Realize
Real lies

May those that love us, love us
And those that don't love us,
May God turn their hearts,
And if he doesn't turn their hearts,
May he turn their ankles,
So we'll know them by their limping.



Posts: 1381 | Registered: Jul 2003 | From: Ft Worth Texas
meplusfour
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Member # 38958
Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((mickeymousin))


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 392 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry for your loss.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10570 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Deeply Scared
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Member # 2
Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((mickeymousin)))

I remember you...I'm so sorry for your loss.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry for your loss.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38626 | Registered: Sep 2007
ladies_first
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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry to learn of your husband's death.

It's been a rocky road and I still feel lost.

Come on over to the "New Beginnings" forum and hang out for awhile. We tackle all kind of new (besides dating) while healing some of the past pain, too.


"We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." ~J. Campbell
"In the final analysis, it is your own attitude that will make or break you, not what has happened to you." ~D. Galloway

Posts: 2143 | Registered: Jun 2009
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((mickeymousin)))


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18271 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
sadtoo
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mickeymousin,
I remember you and your story. I am so sorry. That must be very difficult.

Big hugs to you.


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
bum.
OC born 2001
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)


Posts: 8037 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Iowa
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