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User Topic: OK I did it
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I finally went on and deleted my FB account instead of just having it deactivated. I haven't used it in over a year and have just been avoiding going on there and reactivating it to delete it. But I went on, saved the photos I did not have of me and xSO, some friends and family and deleted it. In 14 days it's gone forever and that feels good. I had it saved in case xSO wanted dates and proof, but we are not together and I answered all his questions. That site is like a thorn in my side, it helped distract me and avoid things I needed to face. Another step in the right direction.

[This message edited by Unagie at 7:42 PM, October 27th (Sunday)]

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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you!! I also deleted my FB account and am so glad I did it!

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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you, Unagie!

“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown

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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good job!! One more step forward on your road towards're doing great

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My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Happy  Posted: 6:44 AM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well done.

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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good job, Unagie!

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Default  Posted: 2:00 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys. Heart hun I've missed you!! How are you!?

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Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I tried the other ways like you said, but found I could still go and "hover" and didn't want to-or want any connection to what "they're doing.

FWIW, it only took a week or two to find other things to fill in the time.

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A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

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