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suckstobeme posted 10/27/2013 19:48 PM

That when exWH seems pissy with me and acts like I'm an annoyance just because I send one text asking if the kids are ok for the night that it's not me? Is it safe to assume that he's pissy for some other reason, ie his bat shit crazy OW and the fact that there are four kids there all weekend, it's bad weather and there is all of about 1,000 square feet of total living space?

I sometimes automatically think, "fuck him. What did I do?". I guess I should knock that off and remember that his pissy attitude no longer has anything to do with me.

Pass posted 10/27/2013 20:48 PM

I sometimes automatically think, "fuck him. What did I do?".

That thought has one sentence too many. Change it to "fuck him" and that's all you need. You will never understand his motivations because you aren't an arsehole.

tryingagain74 posted 10/27/2013 21:25 PM

Yep. It's safe to assume that he's a douchebag who doesn't want to spend another night sleeping with his kids in Tiny House. I'm sure that he's feeling pretty grumpy when he thinks about the house that you get to sleep in tonight!

Kajem posted 10/27/2013 22:13 PM

He'll either get over it or die pissy-his choice.

Don't let his attitude ruin or affect your attitude. Go back to your regular happy disposition.

Hugs,
K

forlornheart posted 10/28/2013 09:08 AM

Ignore the bastard. Don't let his bad attitude affect you.

Live life happy knowing he's not your problem anymore. He's a headache to some else.

((((Hugs))))

sparkysable posted 10/28/2013 09:46 AM

It's safe to assume that he's a douchebag who doesn't want to spend another night sleeping with his kids in Tiny House. I'm sure that he's feeling pretty grumpy when he thinks about the house that you get to sleep in tonight!
for sure! He gave up that beautiful house to live in the spare room of that shithole with that batshit crazy OW. Oh yeah, he hates his life every single day.

SBB posted 10/28/2013 15:11 PM

That thought has one sentence too many.

^^THIS.

Who gives a flying fuck if he's pissy? The sad clown is the moodiest biiiarrrrtch on the planet. Care Factor = Zero.

One of the good things about getting rid of these trashbags is we don't have to tolerate their moods.

If the contact is impacting you then I would reconsider contacting him. I know its hard - my girls were 4.5 and almost 2 when they first started spending 50% of their time away from me. It almost killed me. The sad clown had never put my little one to bed.

His misery is no longer any of your business. Take it from me - this is how they roll, doesn't matter what you do or don't do.

EvenKeel posted 10/28/2013 15:21 PM

I limit my exposure as much as possible with X. I think I have texted 5 times in 4 years and spoke on the phone 2 times.

The less opportunity we give people to shoot their guns at us, the less chance we get hit by that spray of buckshot.

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