Just before bed, Teslet gets teary eyed, "Mom, why did you throw away my butterfly game." Wha?? Butterfly game was from when he was 3 (he's about to be 5)...I think it ended up going to good will, like most toys that he has out-grown. Then he says, "Dad says that you throw away all the toys that he gives me." FTG. Anything he sends over gets sent the fuck back at the next convenient opportunity. But of course that fucker is going to start lying to my son. He lies to everyone else and I guess that since they all believe his bullshit, he thinks it will actually work on his son. Fuck. That. Guy. Talking shit about his mother is going to fucking backfire on ex-shat's ass.
[This message edited by tesla at 9:49 PM, October 27th (Sunday)]
Sounds like this is an opportune time to teach teslet about donating items no longer used so others can play with them.
That way teslet can correct dear old dads lies.
Hugs, K
Married Aug/95 DDay Nov/12 Separated Mar/13 Finally divorced Jul/17
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!
Mummy kissed other men - that's why we're not all together. Mummy stole all of my money. Mummy doesn't feed you right. Mummy is mean to Whaura. Mummy has a boyfriend so you'll be living with me more soon.
Just off the top of my head .
Not to mention the constant sending messages to me through my 5 year old. I've told her and him I won't be actioning any requests this way. She is 5, very sensitive, a daydreamer AND blames herself whenever he or I miss something. I explained that it is not her job. It is ours.
Fuck.That.Guy indeed.
I don't tell her he lies. I tell her everyone has a different opinion and I do not believe his. I tell her the truth and we also talk through the logic of all of the info she has put together herself. She can make her own mind up. We've had some funny laughs about his sillier rants.
She has already started complaining about how he pumps her for info. She asked why I didn't ask about him. I said because he is none of my beeswax - I'm interested in the girls, not him.
She said she likes it that I don't try to make her remember everything she did over there and everything he was doing.
My girls will be wives and mothers one day. Your son will be a husband and father. They will know exactly what this shit is well before then but they will definitely hold them accountable for telling lies and speaking ill of the other parent.
Fucking arsehole.
[This message edited by SBB at 10:47 PM, October 27th (Sunday)]
FTG
So many dicks needing an attitude adjustment, so few hours in a day... sigh
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
F these guys playing head games with their own children. SICK mfs.
I also hate it when they DON'T tell me what is said --- I still freak over what mind games he is doing to them that I can't counteract.
