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Lolati11 posted 10/28/2013 10:55 AM

We are starting over you know WH popped the question again this weekend ... it warmed my heart..the new ring is beautiful ,but what he had to say was 10 times better .It hasn't been an Easy R there were a lots of up and downs but as I looked at him in the eyes and said yes again I knew it was all worth it.I mean not the heart break but just knowing that I still want to spend the rest of my life with him .On another stupid note I did something that nigh I've had quite much to drink and I just noticed that of all the ppls I texted it was the OW my message was pretty much his mine back off !! argh....so childish she did respond she was very happy whatever !! ( did i say she is a former BFF) anyway I am not sweating it .It sure does feel good to tell you all SI family ... but I still think I was stupid for texting her !! so Hang in there ,R is not an easy thing but if you WH or WW are realy sorry they can help you get through it ...if you guide them too .

Dallas2 posted 10/28/2013 11:01 AM

So happy for you. I love success stories!!!

Simple posted 10/28/2013 16:55 PM

Congrats!!!

Yes it's bad to have texted OW. That just means you have a lot more work to do on your end. You'll know what I'm talking about when you feel almost pity (with no anger) to the OW; indifference. In my case there were multiple. I did make sure though that NONE of them had an influence with how I am going to live my life or make my decision. I spend no thought on them; they are inconsequential.

Hugs your way.

jo2love posted 10/28/2013 18:58 PM

What an awesome post! I'm so happy for you both.

eachdayisvictory posted 10/29/2013 09:09 AM

Congratulations!!

Skan posted 10/29/2013 15:34 PM

I'm really happy for you!

girlsbird posted 10/29/2013 19:31 PM

Congrats to you both!

topperoff22 posted 10/29/2013 21:38 PM

Great positive story. You slipped up on contacting the OW but it pales in comparison to the awesome news! Keep moving forward! This is so encouraging!

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