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Must Survive (original poster member #34533) posted at 5:12 PM on Monday, October 28th, 2013
As you know I have to go to court in a couple of days and I had major surgery 2 weeks ago. Dr advised me not to go, but I must, no lawyer, no $ for lawyer.
I get my hair colored every 7 weeks. Tonight is my appointment. It would be a miracle if I could sit for 1.5 hours to have it done. But I will see STBXH at court.
I have decided to not have my hair done. What do I care what my STBXH thinks about my hair! My comfort and health are now more important than what he thinks I look like.
Its a baby step but I will take it.
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:08 PM on Monday, October 28th, 2013
((((Must Survive)))) Sending you healing mojo and strength for court. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 9:06 PM on Monday, October 28th, 2013
Its a baby step but I will take it.
They are all baby steps - then you notice you're a lot further down the road than you thought you were.
I find myself dressing down on the rare occasion that I am forced to see the sad clown. I do not want him thinking I am dressing up for him. 
I know it is not ideal but I am sure a court would grant an extension if you had a letter from your doctor. Unless it is just a rubber stamp session? If not then you really don't want to be in chronic pain if you need your wits about you. There was a lot of sitting around on my court day.
Good luck in court and good luck with your surgery.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
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