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crazycatlady posted 10/29/2013 05:33 AM

Just found out that whoreface is engaged to her rebound after my husband dumped her almost seven years ago. Poor guy has no idea he was her spare boyfriend while she was screwing my husband and her own husband.
I will never forgive her. I still want her to suffer.

hitbyatruck posted 10/29/2013 05:42 AM

Three of the OW in my H's past are involved in serious relationships that started shorty after the affairs. They are all live-ins now. I still check on them on FB. I know they shouldn't mean anything to me, I am no where near indifference with any of them.

MrsDoubtfire posted 10/29/2013 05:50 AM

Karma. Karma will come around. She will keep re enacting those same infidelity behaviours unless she gets some kind of IC.

So, don't look at the new fiancée as her future husband but as husband #2... because what he doesn't yet know is there is a strong possibility there will be a #3 and 4 etc after him!

Poor guy.

Raven96 posted 10/29/2013 07:46 AM

Ugh. I know...it's unfair that they get to go on their happy little way while we are left to pick up the pieces of the mess they made.

I have to believe MrsDoubtfire. It will come around on them. Maybe some of us will even be lucky enough that the once-AP becomes a BS and finally understands what they've done to us.

Ostrich80 posted 10/29/2013 09:49 AM

I feel like ow always lands on her feet. Pisses me off that she never has,consequences and gets to continue on with her.charmed life. Karma must have missed her on the list.

Lovedyoumore posted 10/29/2013 10:40 AM

Absolutely feel your disgust. My H and OW had a very intense emotional as well as physical A. I hope she hurt like hell when he called and woke her at 6 am to tell her he was not coming over for their a.m. sex romp and that he would not be coming back. She had their wedding plans going. She was single so no BS to tell.

If she ever gets engaged, I would have a hard time not telling her new SO her history. Her real history. Not her NPD version. But, you know, sometimes people do not really want the truth. But, in your case it sounds like this guy was involved during the A. Why doesn't he already know?

angelsky posted 10/29/2013 10:59 AM

My WH's A was online (as far as I know) with no physical contact, and I don't know any of them. He supposedly doesn't either. They were all just CL ads, dating sites, etc. So... I will never know about the Karma that affects them. However, I try to think about the people I have known in my life who were cheaters and how they lived/behaved. They sure made it seem like they were doing fine, living life and having a great time. But imagine how lonely it must be and how little self respect they must have to be able to sleep with "anyone" married or not. To be in bed alone knowing that the person you are having an A with is home with their family eating diner, sleeping with another woman/man, playing catch with their kids, living a whole other life without you. They seem like they don't care, but it must be an empty feeling to try to fill it with someone you stole from someone else. Not feeling sorry for them, just saying that what you see isn't always what you get, and what people are feeling isn't always what they say/do in public. They must be so desperate... it's pitiful!

crazycatlady posted 10/29/2013 11:11 AM

Actually whore face is on her way to husband number three. Maybe I will send him a letter describing her plans to take him for his money which she told my husband about during their affair. Whoreface was actually trying to make my husband jealous that she had this other target in sight. And of course, she was still married to her second husband. Whore.

[This message edited by crazycatlady at 11:11 AM, October 29th (Tuesday)]

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