Me-BW Him - WH
angelfire - don't email her. don't give her the satisfaction of her knowing that a year later she STILL has any power of you. Write a letter to her and burn it, go for a run (or other exercise) hit something and pretend it's her...anything to not email her. She won't care and even if she did, any response she gave won't make you feel better.
AND stop going on FB. I was obsessed with her FB page until someone on SI said "Imagine she were notified everytime you looked at her page" and for me, that worked. On FB nobody posts their pain, she of course is going to post happy smiling pics but, she could be miserable too.
I just want to know why she thought it was okay to sleep with a married man. To get involved with a married man. Who does that???
Idk. In my case, the OW was a broken, pathetic woman who thought she could "replace" me. But the second she showed her cards my H realized who/what she was and RAN. She tried (even after he left her) and tried and tried to be with him. And became a vindictive bitch when her attempts failed.
Married 6 years, together 15 years
3 awesome and beautiful children
OC discovered on Dday - born in 2005
D-Day Summer 2013
working towards D...I can't pretend anymore
**If I edit I'm correcting a typo!**