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heartache101 posted 10/29/2013 11:41 AM

So I have a married girl friend and I asked her if her husband was having an internet affair what would you do?
Take the computer away divorce what?
She said I would look the other way!
WOW really? She said yes after being married 35 years what else would I do. Wow is all I said.

ajsmom posted 10/29/2013 11:45 AM

My guess?

He's done it before.

AJ's MOM

OldCow18 posted 10/29/2013 11:53 AM

I have to assume there is no love there then. Maybe I'm way off base, but if theirs is a marraige of convenience perhaps she would look away. If this person was her best friend and partner and there was love, how could she look away?

EvenKeel posted 10/29/2013 11:57 AM

He's done it before.

Yep - that is my guess too. People usually have VERY strong opinions on the subject. Her response means she has either BTDT or is in a bubble and has no clue how much pain it would cause to be blindsided with an A.

heartache101 posted 10/29/2013 12:02 PM

Oh he cheated early on in there marriage physically. She said if it was internet atleast it isnt in person.
Like what? Dont ya think it will move to that. Oh well. I told her I could not live like that. I could not believe her answer. She lost a leg about 7 years ago I am wondering if she lost some self worth?

maxandsen posted 10/29/2013 14:46 PM

I don't think any of us knew or know what we would do until it happens

I always said I would D but here I am trying to R

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