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User Topic: Summons and new beginnings
kg201
♂ 40173
Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So the last few days have been a combination of two steps forward. My wife was told that she is receiving the divorce summons. This has led to various reactions, one of which is her emailing my parents and sister accusing them of hurting the children by alienating her parents and not see them as part of the family after she dies. Strange that she took this on with my family instead of me.

Step two was two different dates I had on Sunday. I really had fun on the first one. Being able to enjoy myself and be myself with someone else was very nice.

Two steps forward....waiting for the one step back.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 769 | Registered: Aug 2013
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Two steps forward....waiting for the one step back.

Hopefully, no steps back. If there is one....at least you are moving forward. Closer and closer to a great nb.


Posts: 36434 | Registered: Mar 2011
DefeatedDad
♂ 41026
Member # 41026
Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic. It is always heartening to see a fellow BS staying strong and moving on with his/her life.

Did you tell her she was going to be served or did your lawyer?


Me - BS 46
Wife - WS 44
Son 13, Daughter 17
Married 22 years
D-day May 16, 2012
TT D-Day 2 9/25/17
TT D-Day 3 1/02/14

Divorcing her sorry a--.


Posts: 217 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: New Mexico
kg201
♂ 40173
Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I tried to call her and tell her over the phone, since in person it is hard for us to communicate about anything. This didn't work. She ended up forcing me to text her that I had filed. She has asked me for a week before being served so she can decide on a lawyer, and then she will accept the summons through the lawyer. I agreed because I would rather not have the constable serve her in front of the children. She has increased her emails to my family demanding that they talk to her about their alienation of her parents, and how it is hurtful to the kids. I asked her to stop harassing my parents, but she continues...she emailed them without CCing me. It's really odd, but I'm not surprised by much anymore.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
---------------------------------
"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 769 | Registered: Aug 2013
Topic Posts: 4

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