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User Topic: He's showing what an asshole he is.
♀ 37656
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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi all,

(I did post this under the general topic, but then thought this was the better forum).

He is a son of a bitch. Unbelievable. I am so angry at him, I could just spit.

My attorney sent me whatever the document is where you talk about mediation and what you want. That SOB, who made an outrageous salary last year (7 figures) is demanding reimbursement to the tune of 228K from me!! I am a student, no income outside of spousal support. He wants to be reimbursed for all the spousal support he has paid, the mortgage on the house....

Then he outright lied on there saying that he offered to quitclaim me the house I am living in now and has been waiting for my answer. That lying SOB NEVER talked to me about giving me the house, just said that he would make the house payment on it until we sold it. I am so tired of his fricking lies.

He also had the balls to state that I had minimal domestic responsibilities. We had two homes that I cleaned on a weekly basis and kept up on - 6 bathrooms, 2 kitchens, 6 bedrooms, 2 living rooms, dining rooms and a sunroom. I cooked his meals, did his laundry, ran his errands, attended his black tie events, oversaw the renovations we did on both houses. I entertained his business associates, rubbed his stupid back and neck every night so he could go to sleep. He's such a liar and I am so SICK of it

I am so DONE with him. So DONE!!!!!!

There are all sort of lies on that document and now I know how ugly this divorce is going to be. His attorney is threatening me with all sorts of stuff if I don't agree to the mediation. The pig hired an expensive Beverly Hills attorney so he could hide his assets and cheat me out of what is due to me. But, then again, he is a cheater. And a liar. Ugh.

I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

Posts: 491 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Southern California
♀ 33226
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He can say whatever he wants. He can paint himself purple and claim he's a grape for Pete's sake. He's still a turd. Use that anger, honey. Harness it and ride it all the way home.

(((((Dawn))))) Sending you strength, honey.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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♀ 38865
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a dick

Let your attorney guide you, hopefully he is a shark.

It sucks, even though we know they are lying cheaters to see it in black and white is a whole new level of fuckery.

Strength to you for the upcoming fight.

Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

Posts: 759 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My X liked me being at.home too. Ir cut down on the juggling of kid schedules, managing the house, making the family dinner only to put his plate in the refrigerator because hs was at the bar. FTG. Let them cast the first you know what your dealing with and of course the are going to play tough. You can do this and prevail.

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Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stay calm Dawn. Calm.

Let your L guide you here.

These are the usual scare tactics - they think by threatening this you'll roll over and play nice without fighting anything else.

He can say WTFever he likes. Unless he can prove it he is just flapping his lips.

I know it is hard but you need to keep a cool head. Remember - divorce is about money. Full.stop. Get through the business part of this without being distracted by the emotional aspect.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 6017 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He can paint himself purple and claim he's a grape for Pete's sake. He's still a turd.

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♀ 33438
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dawn58, I'm sorry that he is acting this way. It is to be expected considering how he has treated you.

Don't forget, this is done to scare, and bully, you in order to coerce you to accept less than you are due. See it for what it is, psffft it in your mind and stay strong.

The depth to which he has gone is an indication of his fear over what he is about to lose! That's why he is attempting to scare you.

[This message edited by alphakitte at 8:55 AM, October 30th (Wednesday)]

------ Some people are emotional tadpoles. Even if they mature they are just a warty toad. Catt

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