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User Topic: Can It Be?
momof1girl
♀ 41074
Member # 41074
Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

These past 28 days have been hell... They have felt like the bottom dropped out of my life completely and like two lifetimes passed. However, today... today things came to a head. A 7 month affair has come to an end. WH found out that OW (a co-worker) has been lying to him the entire time they were together. In fact, she left his bed to get into another bed with another man. Everything came out. Now, we are trying to work towards R... but I know it won't be easy. Hearing him say that he was done with her, hearing him give her the rest of her crap out of our place was a huge dose of balm. It by no means erases the hurt my heart feels, but it is a step.
My question is, what should I avoid saying/asking during R?


D-Day: Oct. 1, 2013

Together 15 years, married 7, 1 child, age 7.

WH: 37 y.o., EA/PA since March
OW: 26, 1 child (not WH's)
Me: 34, BS
Separated Nov. 16, 2013

Does a wedding anniversary still count if you are separated?


Posts: 82 | Registered: Oct 2013
hummingbird8
♀ 25086
Member # 25086
Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When are you going back to Canada?

Posts: 514 | Registered: Aug 2009
momof1girl
♀ 41074
Member # 41074
Default  Posted: 10:43 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When are you going back to Canada?

Our daughter is in school here and doing really really well. The original date for going back was in August, but I am thinking, if we continue on with reconciling, that it could be as early as mid June when school lets out.


D-Day: Oct. 1, 2013

Together 15 years, married 7, 1 child, age 7.

WH: 37 y.o., EA/PA since March
OW: 26, 1 child (not WH's)
Me: 34, BS
Separated Nov. 16, 2013

Does a wedding anniversary still count if you are separated?


Posts: 82 | Registered: Oct 2013
Topic Posts: 3

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