These past 28 days have been hell... They have felt like the bottom dropped out of my life completely and like two lifetimes passed. However, today... today things came to a head. A 7 month affair has come to an end. WH found out that OW (a co-worker) has been lying to him the entire time they were together. In fact, she left his bed to get into another bed with another man. Everything came out. Now, we are trying to work towards R... but I know it won't be easy. Hearing him say that he was done with her, hearing him give her the rest of her crap out of our place was a huge dose of balm. It by no means erases the hurt my heart feels, but it is a step.
D-Day: Oct. 1, 2013
My question is, what should I avoid saying/asking during R?
Together 15 years, married 7, 1 child, age 7.
WH: 37 y.o., EA/PA since March
OW: 26, 1 child (not WH's)
Me: 34, BS
Separated Nov. 16, 2013
Does a wedding anniversary still count if you are separated?