I am close to 2 years from my d-day. After d-day I realized that STBXH was with OW on Halloween while I was at home handing out candy. Our DS(14 at time) was at a friend's house and STBXH kept saying he would pick him up but he was very late.
Anyhoo, I am not so fond of Halloween anymore. I need to take it back.
I would like your opinion. My business (self employed) I have to market myself. In my neighborhood I am well known for what I do and I have people call for my expertise. I now have my maiden name back and that is not really out there yet.
I was thinking that when the trick or treaters come to the door for their candy, I hand out $10 bottle of wine to the parents. It would have a cute comment about adults getting their "treat" and a couple of my new business cards. It serves several purposes. I take back another night and start to make new memories for that evening. If people know me I can easily mention the new name. If they don't, they probably will remember me now!
Anyway what do you all think?
What if you don't drink, would you be "put off" by this?
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." ó Daenerys Targaryen