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maddmurph posted 10/30/2013 13:47 PM

So we had MC today. I came into with a topic I needed to talk about and it got away from me. She says she is trying but I don't feel hard enough. The MC says I'm asking too much and doesn't want to see that I need more. WW says she will do what I say she just needs the time to do it. I think she has had the time. I don't know if I give her another week or just put a shot across her bow.

Ostrich80 posted 10/30/2013 13:55 PM

? Hmmm sounds like you may need a new one, I think she's more concerned with wifeys feelings than yours. Jmo of course

StillLivin posted 10/30/2013 13:59 PM

SERIOUSLY?????

Time to hit the reject button and start over with a new counselor.

tushnurse posted 10/30/2013 14:02 PM

I'm really confused MadMurph.
I thought you were filing and this was a done deal. Why do you continue to engage with this remorseless woman, who now has the MC on her side?

I say fire the shot. Why should she get to dictate the terms of R? She was the one that broke things, I certainly wouldn't rely upon her and her decision making skills to make the terms of R.

lordhasaplan? posted 10/30/2013 14:11 PM

Your MC can suggest, explain, help you understand. He doesn't decide when its the right time for you. You think she has had enough time, doesnt matter what anyone else thinks. So my question is when you conclude this what is your next step? Where does this end up when you play this out? My guess is your just avoiding that outcome because your not ready for it yet. That is fine, but come to that decision on your terms, not because they decide when you have given enough time...... My guess is the end game is upon you.
Sending strength
LHAP?

[This message edited by lordhasaplan? at 2:11 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)]

maddmurph posted 10/30/2013 14:14 PM

I thought you were filing and this was a done deal. Why do you continue to engage with this remorseless woman, who now has the MC on her side?

No I was just exploring the possibilities.

I think I'm going to give it one more session because the MC knows I'm not impressed. It also gives her one more week to what needs to be done.

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