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User Topic: The boulder is off my shoulder
Karmita
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Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


What a difference NC makes. I feel lighter, less anxious, and instead of being reactionary to my soon to ex husband I've been reclaiming myself.

I was so scared to let go and I did it with my eyes closed and holding my breath. Kind of like bungee jumping with a safety line and all you have is faith you'll land safely.

Letting go it scary but it's wonderful on the other side when you do.

Life too short to be married to a vampire cheater who sucks away at your soul.

I'm free and I love me.


Posts: 81 | Registered: Aug 2013
Gemini71
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Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! Sounds like you've taken the first step toward healing.


"Better not give in to it. It takes ten times as long to put yourself back together as it does to fall apart.
― Suzanne Collins, Mockingjay

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014


Posts: 2492 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
Karmita
♀ 40183
Member # 40183
Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Thank you Gemini71

The first steps are the hardest but it gets easier with each step I take.


Posts: 81 | Registered: Aug 2013
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sure sounds like you made the right decision for yourself. Congratulations!


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

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