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TimeToManUp posted 10/30/2013 17:43 PM

It's "that" time for TCD. My A started the trigger, but since the miscarriage, it has only gotten worse. The feelings she experiences are so intense, so painful... She is so distraught, her mood so dark. Last night she was a drooling, snotty, tear-soaked mess... And it hadn't even begun yet. I know I have to be there for her, and I know I haven't been great at it in the past, but I am working to be better. I just fear that with the way she feels and the things she says she (or me, I suppose) will get dragged out to sea by the flood of emotions. Please keep TCD in your thoughts. It's going to be a rough ride...

HFSSC posted 10/30/2013 17:50 PM

You and TCD always have my prayers.

I know this is a horrible time and if you're like my H, feeling so helpless may lead to what looks like impatience. I believe with JM that it's not intentional nor is it impatience with me, but in that emotional, soppy state of mind it can sure look like it. So however patient you feel like you should be, multiply it by about 10. To the point of feeling ridiculous.

I want to say, too, that I'm impressed with the work you have done. Thank you for paying attention to your screen name and taking care of that beautiful woman you have there.

topperoff22 posted 10/30/2013 18:24 PM

Not sure I'm familiar with TCD, but I'll be thinking of her and you during this difficult time.

TimeToManUp posted 10/30/2013 18:31 PM

I know this is a horrible time and if you're like my H, feeling so helpless may lead to what looks like impatience.

^^^^Bingo. The things that are eating her alive are things that I just CANNOT control or really do much about. My words are of little comfort and we just can't seem to catch any significant break, y'know? We have little happy coincidences here and there, but never that big something that would help relieve some pressure. Ugh.

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