I know this is a horrible time and if you're like my H, feeling so helpless may lead to what looks like impatience. I believe with JM that it's not intentional nor is it impatience with me, but in that emotional, soppy state of mind it can sure look like it. So however patient you feel like you should be, multiply it by about 10. To the point of feeling ridiculous.
I want to say, too, that I'm impressed with the work you have done. Thank you for paying attention to your screen name and taking care of that beautiful woman you have there.
I know this is a horrible time and if you're like my H, feeling so helpless may lead to what looks like impatience.
^^^^Bingo. The things that are eating her alive are things that I just CANNOT control or really do much about. My words are of little comfort and we just can't seem to catch any significant break, y'know? We have little happy coincidences here and there, but never that big something that would help relieve some pressure. Ugh.