You and TCD always have my prayers.
I know this is a horrible time and if you're like my H, feeling so helpless may lead to what looks like impatience. I believe with JM that it's not intentional nor is it impatience with me, but in that emotional, soppy state of mind it can sure look like it. So however patient you feel like you should be, multiply it by about 10. To the point of feeling ridiculous.
I want to say, too, that I'm impressed with the work you have done. Thank you for paying attention to your screen name and taking care of that beautiful woman you have there.