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User Topic: W T H is wrong with people???
PhoenixRising88
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Member # 35214
Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just had to share this, I was SO SO SO MAD...

There's a guy that works in AutoCAD area of my office. Their workspace is right off of the break room. I'm in the break room and overhear him talking to someone on the phone.

Then I hear him say "Yeah, she is really really into you. I didn't tell her you were married."

And you talk about white-hot immediate anger. It was all I could do not to barge in there, grab the phone and tell off whoever was on the other end, and then beat my coworker to death with the phone handle.

WTF is wrong with people? Betraying your vows isn't funny. It's not sexy. It's weak and selfish and immature and destroys lives and families.

And now I get to decide what to do the next time this co-worker, who is obviously NOT a friend to ANYONE's marriage, says anything at all to me. My first reaction will be to tell him to get bent, and if he persists in aiding and abetting adultery he needs to not do it using the company phone line!


Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.


Posts: 434 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
losingmyground
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Member # 36070
Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Try seeing a customer that is a serial cheater.

I have met his wife and kids. Seemed like a nice guy. He was ordering shots at my server station and I ask how he was doing. Said he getting divorced. When I said I am sorry, what happened. He proceeded to tell me he got cheating for the 19th time in this marriage. My response....I don't blame her.

Then found out he just cut off his mistress of 3 yrs. He was paying her mortgage, car and schooling. Why did he cut her off....she was talking to other guys. My response....that sounds fair to me.

My advice...stay as far away from this guy as you can. No way either one of us should lose our jobs over piece of craps like them.


Married 13 yrs
3 kids 13, 10 & 1
I'm 34
FWH 37
Affair lasted 6 months
Ended 09/2011
Found out 06/2012
My father died during the affair
In the middle of Reconcilliation

Posts: 291 | Registered: Jul 2012
PhoenixRising88
♀ 35214
Member # 35214
Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He proceeded to tell me he got cheating for the 19th time in this marriage. My response....I don't blame her.

Hell, he's lucky he's still breathing...


Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.


Posts: 434 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yuck.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10029 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
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