Tomorrow will be 9 months since d-day. We are at a great place now in our marriage thanks to a wonderful therapist. It has been a very difficult path I never thought I would find myself on, but did.
Just curious if anyone else's WS talked about the reason of staying in the A was because they felt trapped. My WH said he had sex with the OW the first time they went to dinner and then he felt like a wild animal caught in a trap. She also, made threats constantly to tell me and the military, which she did. She lived up to her threats because I guess that was the only way she knew to keep a man. He has been punished severly with the military. He told them the truth, he said he couldn't handle any more lies. But, when he talks about the 5 months he was with her, he says it was awful and I do believe him. He finally, broke it off and told me everything.He says she took him to the pit of hell and I pulled him out. Now he is a new man and is so happy and working very hard on treating me the way I deserve. So grateful! Just curious if any other WS felt the same way, wanted out but felt trapped.
[This message edited by hurtingarmywife at 6:23 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)]