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topperoff22 posted 10/30/2013 18:30 PM

WH doesn't want me on anti-depressants. HE hates the idea of me being numbed to my feelings. I had issues with anti-depressants in the past but right now I feel I need them. I can't get the clouds to lift at all. I will think I'm OK, but then I go right back down again.

I think he doesn't want me on meds because he'll have to admit his shit is the reason I'm going to end up back on them -- after handling it all naturally for the last year - changing my diet, changing my life. He literally kicked me right back down the mountain and dammit that pisses me off. I don't want a man to be the reason I end up back on meds. I don't know if I should wait all this out or just gve up and realize I'm not strong enough to get out of his slump on my own.

I'm pregnant...maybe seven weeks, so I don't know what I can take. My son is going to be seven next week and I'm not ready for him to grow up and all of this -- making me feel so insecure and lost. I'm just not sure what to do.

crazyblindsided posted 10/30/2013 18:34 PM

Mine said the same. You do what YOU think is best for yourself.

Also I believe there is an AD you can take while pregnant because my sis had to with both her pregnancies.

[This message edited by crazyblindsided at 6:35 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)]

Lowlow posted 10/30/2013 18:46 PM

Unintended consequences of the A.

I wonder if our WS's would do this again if they knew the damage their actions would cause...

Be strong, do what's best for you!

Kelany posted 10/30/2013 18:49 PM

Its not his choice. You and your doctor get to decide, not him. Fuck that. If my husband tried to tell me I couldn't go on meds after Dday2 I may have burned more than his clothes in our driveway. Shit, klonopin and lexapro kept me from taking a bottle of pills and not waking up. Seriously.

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