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User Topic: He doesn't want me on meds....
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Member # 40762
Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH doesn't want me on anti-depressants. HE hates the idea of me being numbed to my feelings. I had issues with anti-depressants in the past but right now I feel I need them. I can't get the clouds to lift at all. I will think I'm OK, but then I go right back down again.

I think he doesn't want me on meds because he'll have to admit his shit is the reason I'm going to end up back on them -- after handling it all naturally for the last year - changing my diet, changing my life. He literally kicked me right back down the mountain and dammit that pisses me off. I don't want a man to be the reason I end up back on meds. I don't know if I should wait all this out or just gve up and realize I'm not strong enough to get out of his slump on my own.

I'm pregnant...maybe seven weeks, so I don't know what I can take. My son is going to be seven next week and I'm not ready for him to grow up and all of this -- making me feel so insecure and lost. I'm just not sure what to do.

BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
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Member # 35215
Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine said the same. You do what YOU think is best for yourself.

Also I believe there is an AD you can take while pregnant because my sis had to with both her pregnancies.

[This message edited by crazyblindsided at 6:35 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)]

BS/FWS (me):44 Madhatter
WS/BS:47 Serial Cheater
Together 20 years, Married 16
DD(14) DS(11)
DDay(s) Too many to count
False R 7/11/14 Same OW2
"Never seek validation from those who are unworthy."

Posts: 4132 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
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Member # 38653
Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unintended consequences of the A.

I wonder if our WS's would do this again if they knew the damage their actions would cause...

Be strong, do what's best for you!

Me (BS) 45 Him (FWS) 46
AP#2 (LTA EA/PA) DD #1 16 Feb 2013
AP#1 (LTA EA with my BF) DD #2 16 Nov2013
OW2 breaks no contact after 4.5 years! Back to square one

Posts: 798 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Neither here nor there
♀ 34755
Member # 34755
Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Its not his choice. You and your doctor get to decide, not him. Fuck that. If my husband tried to tell me I couldn't go on meds after Dday2 I may have burned more than his clothes in our driveway. Shit, klonopin and lexapro kept me from taking a bottle of pills and not waking up. Seriously.

BS - Me
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

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